Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.
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This is Awesome Reuben..Gread stuff man.
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Looking good Reuben. All the best to you and your lads.
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A little update…
I’ve been absent from the forum after getting quite ill again late summer. This sparked a diagnostic investigstion as it was becoming obvious that my major depressive disorder was a symptomatic of an underlying, more serious disorder.
I’ve now been diagnosed as having emotionally unstable personality disorder (previously known as Borderline Personality Disorder). There are also indications of ADHD (innattentive type), but that is hard to diagnose if you already have BPD.
Long story short, I will have had BPD since adolescence so a late diagnosis (while better than no diagnosis), means a lot of crap to wade through.
But fuck it. Onwards and upwards. Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?
«Stevie Heighway on the wing!
We had dreams, and songs to sing…»- Dame Vera Lynn
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@neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:
Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?
I must have it too.....
Thanks for the update Reuben....
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@neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:
Onwards and upwards.
This is definitely the way - hope the ride’s less bumpy from here on!
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@Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.
@SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated
By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.
@Giles
🥰«Stevie Heighway on the wing!
We had dreams, and songs to sing…»- Dame Vera Lynn
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Hey..
I wish you all the best. I hope that you are soon back on the legs, as far as one can be with a depression.
I had only a light one, but that was enough.
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@neph93 thanks for the update, brother dude. I can't imagine how the diagnosis feels with BPD but I certainly can relate to ADHD. I was diagnosed when I was 10 or so. Hope you continue to figure things out to the point where (selfishly) you can make more stops by the forum. We really miss you man but know it is from love and we are patient!
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Matt tends to inspire throbbing in organs, it's true. Just look at him.
Been wondering how you're doing, @neph93 — glad to hear you've got a diagnosis, as knowledge is power. We're all rooting for you and are happier whenever you're around. Much love, buddy
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@neph93 Hey man, good vibes coming atcha. Its funny, I don't think we've ever chatted on here, but I've seen so much of you while scouring these forums for intel, that I feel like I've learned a bit about you (without creepystalking), and I think you're an alright guy. I want you to know that I'm genuinely rooting for you, and even as a stranger, you've been a great help and a positive influence to me. Be easy, my friend.
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@neph93 your transparency is truly admirable. Extended absences or not, you will always be the daddy of this forum. #man crush
