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    Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.

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    • endoE
      endo
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      love you @neph93

      si tacuisses

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      • neph93N
        neph93
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        @Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.

        @SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated 😂

        By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.

        @Giles 😘😘🥰

        «Stevie Heighway on the wing!
        We had dreams, and songs to sing…»

        • Dame Vera Lynn
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        • S
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          Thanks for update, Reuben. We miss you around here, and I love seeing you when you pop in for a visit. I hope that with this diagnosis you can continue to find new ways to cope and live healthy and ideally happy!! 🌈❤️

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          • markus_berlin_M
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            Hey..

            I wish you all the best. I hope that you are soon back on the legs, as far as one can be with a depression.
            I had only a light one, but that was enough.
            I wish you much strength for the coming time!!!!

            IG: markus_berlin_

            WTB :
            IHSW-50 size M
            IHV-44 size M

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            • OaktaviaO
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              @neph93 thanks for the update, brother dude. I can't imagine how the diagnosis feels with BPD but I certainly can relate to ADHD. I was diagnosed when I was 10 or so. Hope you continue to figure things out to the point where (selfishly) you can make more stops by the forum. We really miss you man but know it is from love and we are patient!

              IG: electricindigowizard

              "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

              WTB: IHJ-32 - XL/XXL

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              • popvultureP
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                Matt tends to inspire throbbing in organs, it's true. Just look at him.

                Been wondering how you're doing, @neph93 — glad to hear you've got a diagnosis, as knowledge is power. We're all rooting for you and are happier whenever you're around. Much love, buddy ❤️

                WTB
                IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
                Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

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                • goosehdG
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                  New you, old you, same you...doesn't matter as we all love you! Ups, downs, and the in-betweens we'll be here 🙂

                  "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                  • WhiskeySandwichW
                    WhiskeySandwich
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                    @neph93 Hey man, good vibes coming atcha. Its funny, I don't think we've ever chatted on here, but I've seen so much of you while scouring these forums for intel, that I feel like I've learned a bit about you (without creepystalking), and I think you're an alright guy. I want you to know that I'm genuinely rooting for you, and even as a stranger, you've been a great help and a positive influence to me. Be easy, my friend.

                    "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                    -Seneca

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                    • KarolK
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                      @neph93 Only opportunities Reuben. Stay strong!

                      Favorite:
                      IH-888S-21 | IH-888-XHSib | IH-805 | IH-729-PUR | IH-555-XHS | IH-555S-25MB
                      IHSH-339-SAX | IHSH-341-BLK | IHSH-293-OD | IHSH-362-BLK | IHSH-409-IB | IHSH-336-OD | IHSB-BIGBUCK-BLK
                      IHV-44-BLK | IHV-02-BLK
                      IHJ-75-BLK | IHJ-79-BLK | IHM-37-ODG

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                      • flannel slutF
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                        @neph93 your transparency is truly admirable. Extended absences or not, you will always be the daddy of this forum. #man crush

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                        • AetasA
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                          Thanks for stopping by @neph93
                          Sende eine fette Umarmung!

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                          • J-IVJ
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                            Howdy @neph93 appreciate you keeping us in the loop as the forum truly isn't the same without. Its been a bit too cupcakey as of late 😁
                            Sending you all the sunshine from the Cali coast. Keep on keepin' on my dude🤙🏾

                            I'm as ugly as you

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                            • goosehdG
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                              @J-IV Looks like someone is looking to get frosted with sprinkles added on top. Don't make me get out the decorating kit... 🙂

                              "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                              • OaktaviaO
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                                @neph93 damn that's a bigass fish. Is it some kind of bass? Grouper?

                                IG: electricindigowizard

                                "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

                                WTB: IHJ-32 - XL/XXL

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                                • NikN
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                                  Good to hear from you again @neph93 hope you’ve got lots of support close by. We’re all rooting for you.

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                                  • MizmazzleM
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                                    @neph93 clearly you are cared for Rueben. Want to throw my hat in the ring on it as well!! Times like these call for a Slayer played at volume 20 session!

                                    In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

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                                    • mikebarhootM
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                                      or ABBA. i mean, Norway. amiright!?!

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                                      • mikebarhootM
                                        mikebarhoot
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                                        Glad to hear from ya Reuben!

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                                        • J-IVJ
                                          J-IV
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                                          @goosehd ahh not today please. I had a little too much sugar already. But I am curious to see those frosting decoration skills of yours. Are they rosette sprinkles at least?

                                          I'm as ugly as you

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                                          • denim-dawgD
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                                            @neph93 you’re the One, Reuben. Thanks for sharing and being such a classy gentleman. All the best to you. Hope to see eye to eye sometime soon in the north ✊🏼

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