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Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.

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    Giles
    IHUK Crew
    @neph93
    Joined: 22 Sept 2009

    @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

    Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

    I must have it too.....

    Thanks for the update Reuben....

    "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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      Matt
      見習いボス
      Joined: 4 Oct 2011

      I’m borderline lots of things. Halfassery is my way.

      Love you buddy. Miss you lots.

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        SKT
        見習いボス
        @neph93
        Joined: 26 Aug 2019

        @neph93 The “knowing” is a huge positive I’m hoping. Miss you here and will be sending all the positive energy your way.

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          ARNC
          啓蒙家
          @neph93
          Joined: 13 Dec 2020

          @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

          Onwards and upwards.

          This is definitely the way - hope the ride’s less bumpy from here on!

          “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

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            endo
            見習いボス
            Joined: 29 May 2020

            love you @neph93

            si tacuisses

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              neph93
              見習いボス
              @Matt
              Joined: 18 Aug 2014

              @Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.

              @SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated 😂

              By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.

              @Giles 😘😘🥰

              «Stevie Heighway on the wing!
              We had dreams, and songs to sing…»

              • Dame Vera Lynn
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                sabergirl
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                Joined: 4 Oct 2013

                Thanks for update, Reuben. We miss you around here, and I love seeing you when you pop in for a visit. I hope that with this diagnosis you can continue to find new ways to cope and live healthy and ideally happy!! 🌈❤️

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                  markus_berlin_
                  Haraki san Expert
                  Joined: 30 Aug 2022

                  Hey..

                  I wish you all the best. I hope that you are soon back on the legs, as far as one can be with a depression.
                  I had only a light one, but that was enough.
                  I wish you much strength for the coming time!!!!

                  IG: markus_berlin_

                  WTB :
                  IHSW-50 size M
                  IHV-44 size M

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                    Oaktavia
                    見習いボス
                    Joined: 12 Jun 2019

                    @neph93 thanks for the update, brother dude. I can't imagine how the diagnosis feels with BPD but I certainly can relate to ADHD. I was diagnosed when I was 10 or so. Hope you continue to figure things out to the point where (selfishly) you can make more stops by the forum. We really miss you man but know it is from love and we are patient!

                    IG: electricindigowizard

                    "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

                    WTB: IHJ-32 - XL/XXL

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                      popvulture
                      見習いボス
                      Joined: 2 Oct 2018

                      Matt tends to inspire throbbing in organs, it's true. Just look at him.

                      Been wondering how you're doing, @neph93 — glad to hear you've got a diagnosis, as knowledge is power. We're all rooting for you and are happier whenever you're around. Much love, buddy ❤️

                      WTB
                      IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
                      Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

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                        goosehd
                        Mod Squad
                        Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                        New you, old you, same you...doesn't matter as we all love you! Ups, downs, and the in-betweens we'll be here 🙂

                        "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                          WhiskeySandwich
                          啓蒙家
                          @neph93
                          Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                          @neph93 Hey man, good vibes coming atcha. Its funny, I don't think we've ever chatted on here, but I've seen so much of you while scouring these forums for intel, that I feel like I've learned a bit about you (without creepystalking), and I think you're an alright guy. I want you to know that I'm genuinely rooting for you, and even as a stranger, you've been a great help and a positive influence to me. Be easy, my friend.

                          "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                          -Seneca

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                            Karol
                            啓蒙家
                            @neph93
                            Joined: 14 Nov 2022

                            @neph93 Only opportunities Reuben. Stay strong!

                            Favorite:
                            IH-888S-21 | IH-888-XHSib | IH-805 | IH-729-PUR | IH-555-XHS | IH-555S-25MB
                            IHSH-339-SAX | IHSH-341-BLK | IHSH-293-OD | IHSH-362-BLK | IHSH-409-IB | IHSH-336-OD | IHSB-BIGBUCK-BLK
                            IHV-44-BLK | IHV-02-BLK
                            IHJ-75-BLK | IHJ-79-BLK | IHM-37-ODG

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                              flannel slut
                              Raw and Unwashed
                              Joined: 21 Feb 2022

                              @neph93 your transparency is truly admirable. Extended absences or not, you will always be the daddy of this forum. #man crush

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                                Aetas
                                見習いボス
                                Joined: 19 Jun 2013

                                Thanks for stopping by @neph93
                                Sende eine fette Umarmung!

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                                  J-IV
                                  啓蒙家
                                  Joined: 19 Oct 2011

                                  Howdy @neph93 appreciate you keeping us in the loop as the forum truly isn't the same without. Its been a bit too cupcakey as of late 😁
                                  Sending you all the sunshine from the Cali coast. Keep on keepin' on my dude🤙🏾

                                  I'm as ugly as you

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                                    goosehd
                                    Mod Squad
                                    @J-IV
                                    Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                                    @J-IV Looks like someone is looking to get frosted with sprinkles added on top. Don't make me get out the decorating kit... 🙂

                                    "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                                      Oaktavia
                                      見習いボス
                                      @neph93
                                      Joined: 12 Jun 2019

                                      @neph93 damn that's a bigass fish. Is it some kind of bass? Grouper?

                                      IG: electricindigowizard

                                      "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

                                      WTB: IHJ-32 - XL/XXL

                                      last edited by Oaktavia 10 Nov 2023, 19:39 11 Oct 2023, 19:39 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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                                        Nik
                                        Raw and Unwashed
                                        Joined: 12 Nov 2020

                                        Good to hear from you again @neph93 hope you’ve got lots of support close by. We’re all rooting for you.

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                                          Mizmazzle
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                                          Joined: 29 Jun 2021

                                          @neph93 clearly you are cared for Rueben. Want to throw my hat in the ring on it as well!! Times like these call for a Slayer played at volume 20 session!

                                          In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

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