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Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.

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    pacreamer
    Haraki san Student
    Joined: 4 Mar 2017

    Hey @neph93. Wishing you rest, relaxation and a positive recovery.

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      Weft 4 Dead
      Raw and Unwashed
      Joined: 14 Feb 2021

      Welcome back, Rueben. Happy to hear you’re doing better. Sorry that Hot Ingrid won’t be co-starring in your adventures, but I’m sure that’ll be remedied by rocking those vests as only you do.

      last edited by 3 Apr 2023, 17:46 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
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        RoxRocks86
        Raw and Unwashed
        Joined: 2 Mar 2018

        Lots of love to you Rueben 💙💙💙

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          chrisjohnnick
          Iron Heart Deity
          Joined: 7 Jan 2021

          Glad you're back! 😘

          Wants List:
          IHSH-20-Red, XL
          IHSH-208-Indigo Kersey, L-XL
          IHSH-254-Grey Kersey, L-XL
          IHSW-45 Black, M
          IH-526SV 21oz type III, 38 or 40
          IH-777S-SB size 32
          IH-777S-142 size 31 or 32

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            Giles
            IHUK Crew
            Joined: 22 Sept 2009

            I spoke to Reuben today, he was out with the boys fishing. Atta boy....

            He sounded good. Has had some rough times over the last couple of months, but sounded genuinely in a pretty good place.

            I was happy....

            "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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              neph93
              見習いボス
              Joined: 18 Aug 2014

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              “Some of those that work forces
              Are the same that burn crosses”

              • Virginia Woolf
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                goosehd
                Mod Squad
                @neph93
                Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                @neph93 Good stuff!!! 🙂

                "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                  popvulture
                  見習いボス
                  Joined: 2 Oct 2018

                  Hell yeah brother!

                  WTB
                  IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
                  Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

                  last edited by 10 Jul 2023, 20:29 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
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                    Matt
                    見習いボス
                    Joined: 4 Oct 2011

                    Now he just needs to get his ass down to Hamburg. Shenanigans heal all wounds.

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                      yannis
                      Haraki san Expert
                      Joined: 26 Aug 2020

                      This is Awesome Reuben..Gread stuff man.

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                        Weft 4 Dead
                        Raw and Unwashed
                        Joined: 14 Feb 2021

                        Looking good Reuben. All the best to you and your lads.

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                          neph93
                          見習いボス
                          Joined: 18 Aug 2014

                          A little update…

                          I’ve been absent from the forum after getting quite ill again late summer. This sparked a diagnostic investigstion as it was becoming obvious that my major depressive disorder was a symptomatic of an underlying, more serious disorder.

                          I’ve now been diagnosed as having emotionally unstable personality disorder (previously known as Borderline Personality Disorder). There are also indications of ADHD (innattentive type), but that is hard to diagnose if you already have BPD.

                          Long story short, I will have had BPD since adolescence so a late diagnosis (while better than no diagnosis), means a lot of crap to wade through.

                          But fuck it. Onwards and upwards. Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                          “Some of those that work forces
                          Are the same that burn crosses”

                          • Virginia Woolf
                          last edited by neph93 10 Nov 2023, 16:30 11 Oct 2023, 16:29 G S A K 4 Replies Last reply 11 Oct 2023, 16:33 Reply Quote 21
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                            Giles
                            IHUK Crew
                            @neph93
                            Joined: 22 Sept 2009

                            @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                            Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                            I must have it too.....

                            Thanks for the update Reuben....

                            "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                              Matt
                              見習いボス
                              Joined: 4 Oct 2011

                              I’m borderline lots of things. Halfassery is my way.

                              Love you buddy. Miss you lots.

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                                SKT
                                見習いボス
                                @neph93
                                Joined: 26 Aug 2019

                                @neph93 The “knowing” is a huge positive I’m hoping. Miss you here and will be sending all the positive energy your way.

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                                  ARNC
                                  啓蒙家
                                  @neph93
                                  Joined: 13 Dec 2020

                                  @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                                  Onwards and upwards.

                                  This is definitely the way - hope the ride’s less bumpy from here on!

                                  “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

                                  last edited by 11 Oct 2023, 16:54 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
                                  • endoE
                                    endo
                                    見習いボス
                                    Joined: 29 May 2020

                                    love you @neph93

                                    si tacuisses

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                                      neph93
                                      見習いボス
                                      @Matt
                                      Joined: 18 Aug 2014

                                      @Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.

                                      @SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated 😂

                                      By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.

                                      @Giles 😘😘🥰

                                      “Some of those that work forces
                                      Are the same that burn crosses”

                                      • Virginia Woolf
                                      last edited by neph93 10 Nov 2023, 16:59 11 Oct 2023, 16:59 WhiskeySandwichW denim-dawgD ROmanR 3 Replies Last reply 11 Oct 2023, 17:52 Reply Quote 8
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                                        sabergirl
                                        見習いボス
                                        Joined: 4 Oct 2013

                                        Thanks for update, Reuben. We miss you around here, and I love seeing you when you pop in for a visit. I hope that with this diagnosis you can continue to find new ways to cope and live healthy and ideally happy!! 🌈❤️

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                                        • markus_berlin_M
                                          markus_berlin_
                                          Haraki san Expert
                                          Joined: 30 Aug 2022

                                          Hey..

                                          I wish you all the best. I hope that you are soon back on the legs, as far as one can be with a depression.
                                          I had only a light one, but that was enough.
                                          I wish you much strength for the coming time!!!!

                                          IG: markus_berlin_

                                          WTB :
                                          IHSW-50 size M
                                          IHV-44 size M
                                          IHSI-16

                                          last edited by 11 Oct 2023, 17:02 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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