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    Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.

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    • Paul9221P
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      @Matt said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

      Just keep on talking Jeff. It’s definitely getting better.

      I had to cut my video on my Zoom call...this killed me LOL!

      Blanket-line all the things!!!

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        Adam B
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        Welcome back!

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        • pacreamerP
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          Hey @neph93. Wishing you rest, relaxation and a positive recovery.

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          • W
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            Welcome back, Rueben. Happy to hear you’re doing better. Sorry that Hot Ingrid won’t be co-starring in your adventures, but I’m sure that’ll be remedied by rocking those vests as only you do.

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            • RoxRocks86R
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              Lots of love to you Rueben 💙💙💙

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              • chrisjohnnickC
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                Glad you're back! 😘

                Wants List:
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                IHSH-208-Indigo Kersey, L-XL
                IHSH-254-Grey Kersey, L-XL
                IHSW-45 Black, M
                IH-526SV 21oz type III, 38 or 40
                IH-777S-SB size 32
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                IHJ-142-BLK or IND, M

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                • GilesG
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                  I spoke to Reuben today, he was out with the boys fishing. Atta boy....

                  He sounded good. Has had some rough times over the last couple of months, but sounded genuinely in a pretty good place.

                  I was happy....

                  "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                  • neph93N
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                    «Stevie Heighway on the wing!
                    We had dreams, and songs to sing…»

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                    • goosehdG
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                      @neph93 Good stuff!!! 🙂

                      "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                      • popvultureP
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                        Hell yeah brother!

                        WTB
                        IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
                        Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

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                        • MattM
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                          Now he just needs to get his ass down to Hamburg. Shenanigans heal all wounds.

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                            yannis
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                            This is Awesome Reuben..Gread stuff man.

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                            • W
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                              Looking good Reuben. All the best to you and your lads.

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                              • neph93N
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                                A little update…

                                I’ve been absent from the forum after getting quite ill again late summer. This sparked a diagnostic investigstion as it was becoming obvious that my major depressive disorder was a symptomatic of an underlying, more serious disorder.

                                I’ve now been diagnosed as having emotionally unstable personality disorder (previously known as Borderline Personality Disorder). There are also indications of ADHD (innattentive type), but that is hard to diagnose if you already have BPD.

                                Long story short, I will have had BPD since adolescence so a late diagnosis (while better than no diagnosis), means a lot of crap to wade through.

                                But fuck it. Onwards and upwards. Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                                «Stevie Heighway on the wing!
                                We had dreams, and songs to sing…»

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                                • GilesG
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                                  @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                                  Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                                  I must have it too.....

                                  Thanks for the update Reuben....

                                  "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                                  • MattM
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                                    I’m borderline lots of things. Halfassery is my way.

                                    Love you buddy. Miss you lots.

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                                    • SKTS
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                                      @neph93 The “knowing” is a huge positive I’m hoping. Miss you here and will be sending all the positive energy your way.

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                                      • ARNCA
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                                        @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                                        Onwards and upwards.

                                        This is definitely the way - hope the ride’s less bumpy from here on!

                                        “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

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                                        • endoE
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                                          love you @neph93

                                          si tacuisses

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                                          • neph93N
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                                            @Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.

                                            @SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated 😂

                                            By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.

                                            @Giles 😘😘🥰

                                            «Stevie Heighway on the wing!
                                            We had dreams, and songs to sing…»

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