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Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.

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    neph93
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    Joined: 18 Aug 2014

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    “Some of those that work forces
    Are the same that burn crosses”

    • Virginia Woolf
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      goosehd
      Mod Squad
      @neph93
      Joined: 8 Apr 2016

      @neph93 Good stuff!!! 🙂

      "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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        popvulture
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        Joined: 2 Oct 2018

        Hell yeah brother!

        WTB
        IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
        Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

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          Matt
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          Joined: 4 Oct 2011

          Now he just needs to get his ass down to Hamburg. Shenanigans heal all wounds.

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            yannis
            Haraki san Expert
            Joined: 26 Aug 2020

            This is Awesome Reuben..Gread stuff man.

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              Weft 4 Dead
              Raw and Unwashed
              Joined: 14 Feb 2021

              Looking good Reuben. All the best to you and your lads.

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                neph93
                見習いボス
                Joined: 18 Aug 2014

                A little update…

                I’ve been absent from the forum after getting quite ill again late summer. This sparked a diagnostic investigstion as it was becoming obvious that my major depressive disorder was a symptomatic of an underlying, more serious disorder.

                I’ve now been diagnosed as having emotionally unstable personality disorder (previously known as Borderline Personality Disorder). There are also indications of ADHD (innattentive type), but that is hard to diagnose if you already have BPD.

                Long story short, I will have had BPD since adolescence so a late diagnosis (while better than no diagnosis), means a lot of crap to wade through.

                But fuck it. Onwards and upwards. Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                “Some of those that work forces
                Are the same that burn crosses”

                • Virginia Woolf
                last edited by neph93 10 Nov 2023, 16:30 11 Oct 2023, 16:29 G S A K 4 Replies Last reply 11 Oct 2023, 16:33 Reply Quote 21
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                  Giles
                  IHUK Crew
                  @neph93
                  Joined: 22 Sept 2009

                  @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                  Having a serious personality disorder is a great excuse for bad behaviour, right?

                  I must have it too.....

                  Thanks for the update Reuben....

                  "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                    Matt
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                    Joined: 4 Oct 2011

                    I’m borderline lots of things. Halfassery is my way.

                    Love you buddy. Miss you lots.

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                      SKT
                      見習いボス
                      @neph93
                      Joined: 26 Aug 2019

                      @neph93 The “knowing” is a huge positive I’m hoping. Miss you here and will be sending all the positive energy your way.

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                        ARNC
                        啓蒙家
                        @neph93
                        Joined: 13 Dec 2020

                        @neph93 said in Neph out of action again… and for a bit longer this time.:

                        Onwards and upwards.

                        This is definitely the way - hope the ride’s less bumpy from here on!

                        “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

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                          endo
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                          Joined: 29 May 2020

                          love you @neph93

                          si tacuisses

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                            neph93
                            見習いボス
                            @Matt
                            Joined: 18 Aug 2014

                            @Matt your making an organ enlarged and causing it to throb innsistently.

                            @SKT interesting point. For me, yes. It explains a lot, and long term it will be good to accept that. At the same time it is pretty hard to swallow right now… a key feature of the diagnosis is emotional dysregulation, so finding out has me seriously emotionally dysregulated 😂

                            By all accounts, «knowing» is not of that much help when it comes to recovering from or living with disorders, from a therapeutic perspective. Whatever ails one up top, its about learning triggers and avoiding them. I’m the same me I always have been, with or without a three initial diagnosis. Just have to learn how best to live without triggering anxiety, depression or disocciation.

                            @Giles 😘😘🥰

                            “Some of those that work forces
                            Are the same that burn crosses”

                            • Virginia Woolf
                            last edited by neph93 10 Nov 2023, 16:59 11 Oct 2023, 16:59 W D R 3 Replies Last reply 11 Oct 2023, 17:52 Reply Quote 8
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                              sabergirl
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                              Joined: 4 Oct 2013

                              Thanks for update, Reuben. We miss you around here, and I love seeing you when you pop in for a visit. I hope that with this diagnosis you can continue to find new ways to cope and live healthy and ideally happy!! 🌈❤️

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                                markus_berlin_
                                Haraki san Expert
                                Joined: 30 Aug 2022

                                Hey..

                                I wish you all the best. I hope that you are soon back on the legs, as far as one can be with a depression.
                                I had only a light one, but that was enough.
                                I wish you much strength for the coming time!!!!

                                IG: markus_berlin_

                                WTB :
                                IHSW-50 size M
                                IHV-44 size M
                                IHSI-16

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                                  Oaktavia
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                                  Joined: 12 Jun 2019

                                  @neph93 thanks for the update, brother dude. I can't imagine how the diagnosis feels with BPD but I certainly can relate to ADHD. I was diagnosed when I was 10 or so. Hope you continue to figure things out to the point where (selfishly) you can make more stops by the forum. We really miss you man but know it is from love and we are patient!

                                  IG: electricindigowizard

                                  "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

                                  WTB: IHJ-32 - XL/XXL

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                                    popvulture
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                                    Joined: 2 Oct 2018

                                    Matt tends to inspire throbbing in organs, it's true. Just look at him.

                                    Been wondering how you're doing, @neph93 — glad to hear you've got a diagnosis, as knowledge is power. We're all rooting for you and are happier whenever you're around. Much love, buddy ❤️

                                    WTB
                                    IHSH-IHG-BLK XXL
                                    Sugar Cane Coke Stripe SS L charcoal

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                                      goosehd
                                      Mod Squad
                                      Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                                      New you, old you, same you...doesn't matter as we all love you! Ups, downs, and the in-betweens we'll be here 🙂

                                      "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                                        WhiskeySandwich
                                        啓蒙家
                                        @neph93
                                        Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                                        @neph93 Hey man, good vibes coming atcha. Its funny, I don't think we've ever chatted on here, but I've seen so much of you while scouring these forums for intel, that I feel like I've learned a bit about you (without creepystalking), and I think you're an alright guy. I want you to know that I'm genuinely rooting for you, and even as a stranger, you've been a great help and a positive influence to me. Be easy, my friend.

                                        "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                                        -Seneca

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                                          Karol
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                                          @neph93
                                          Joined: 14 Nov 2022

                                          @neph93 Only opportunities Reuben. Stay strong!

                                          Favorite:
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                                          IHV-44-BLK | IHV-02-BLK
                                          IHJ-75-BLK | IHJ-79-BLK | IHM-37-ODG

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