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    flannel slut
    Raw and Unwashed
    @mclaincausey
    Joined: 21 Feb 2022

    @mclaincausey oh no. Much respect for their work but know nothing of them outside some good reads. What kind of shenanigans they get into?

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      mclaincausey
      見習いボス
      @flannel slut
      Joined: 12 Apr 2013

      @flannel-slut McCarthy’s thing is kind of old but at age 42 he picked up a 16 year old at a motel pool. Gaiman has a bunch of credible and extremely creepy accusations of sexual misconduct, exploiting power dynamics to do so.

      Then we have stories about Danny Elfman and others to add more wood to my bonfire of misanthropy.

      Think it, be it.

      last edited by 28 Jan 2025, 15:38 F 1 Reply Last reply 28 Jan 2025, 16:33 Reply Quote 0
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        flannel slut
        Raw and Unwashed
        @mclaincausey
        Joined: 21 Feb 2022

        @mclaincausey was my guess but wasn’t finding anything specific… all too common 😔

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          SKT
          見習いボス
          @mclaincausey
          Joined: 26 Aug 2019

          @mclaincausey I think the Gaiman things feels particularly egregious to me because he consistently identified as a supporter of women and feminism. That article detailing the allegations against him was really disturbing.

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            SKT
            見習いボス
            Joined: 26 Aug 2019

            Also, Ryan Adams pulled the same type of shit if I remember correctly

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              mclaincausey
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              @SKT
              Joined: 12 Apr 2013

              @SKT yeah exactly, the layer of hypocrisy doesn’t help.

              And Ryan Adams had whatever issues he had—I don’t know all the details—but at a minimum he was using his celebrity and connections to promise things to romantic interests, and then threatening to destroy them professionally when they didn’t reciprocate. So, while reprehensible and unacceptable, what I’ve read about him isn’t as bad as sexual assault attached to Gaiman, and he could have rehabilitated himself and his career. His fans seemed by and large to be ready to forgive his Weinstein-isms if he could have just gotten back to doing music. But when he had that opportunity, he went full Morrissey, going batshit crazy on tour and messing it up. The man is deeply unwell.

              Think it, be it.

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                SKT
                見習いボス
                Joined: 26 Aug 2019

                You’re right and I should have been more careful to lump Adams in with Gaiman. Not the same level of offenses but in the same orbit…abusing a power dynamic.

                And I need to look into his tour/comeback…I didn’t even know he made the attempt.

                last edited by SKT 28 Jan 2025, 18:04 M 1 Reply Last reply 28 Jan 2025, 22:58 Reply Quote 0
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                  mclaincausey
                  見習いボス
                  @SKT
                  Joined: 12 Apr 2013

                  @SKT I found an article / concert review that echoes a lot of what I saw on reddit.

                  https://891khol.org/op-ed-when-youve-fallen-from-grace-have-some-grace/

                  Think it, be it.

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                    tody
                    啓蒙家
                    Joined: 24 Feb 2021

                    As we have a no politics rule around here, let me ask a legal question instead:
                    How many times would I be able to reload for it still to be considered self defense?

                    last edited by 29 Jan 2025, 18:45 W 1 Reply Last reply 29 Jan 2025, 19:16 Reply Quote 0
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                      WhiskeySandwich
                      啓蒙家
                      @tody
                      Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                      @tody depends on how many times you miss....

                      "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                      -Seneca

                      last edited by 29 Jan 2025, 19:16 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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                        Jett129
                        見習いボス
                        Joined: 17 Aug 2011

                        @tody @WhiskeySandwich You guys reminded me of the joke...What do you do if you miss your Mother-in -Law?...Reload!

                        last edited by 29 Jan 2025, 19:33 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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                          Matt
                          見習いボス
                          Joined: 4 Oct 2011

                          Depends on which state you’re in.

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                            tody
                            啓蒙家
                            Joined: 24 Feb 2021

                            it certainly feels like the state of confusion.

                            last edited by 30 Jan 2025, 05:48 W 1 Reply Last reply 30 Jan 2025, 16:58 Reply Quote 1
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                              prpx
                              Haraki san Expert
                              Joined: 10 Nov 2021

                              Guess this can go here.
                              Long live Nick.

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                                WhiskeySandwich
                                啓蒙家
                                @tody
                                Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                                @tody forgive the pun, but i feel like this is a 'loaded' question.
                                I can't help but assume you're referring to a situation in which someone 'eliminates a threat', yet reloads and continues to fire into said threat long after it has expired. That is a heavily situationally-dependent and subjective scenario and would likely come down to the discretion of a jury.
                                Having said that, it seems that if one were to reload AFTER the threat has expired, then one would most likely be considered to have exceeded a reasonable measure of deadly force. Of course this is also subjective and would depend on the initiating threat level of the one being defended against, which would have to be assumed to also have presented a deadly threat. Of course at that point you could bring up the question: "How dead is too dead?"

                                Sorry for the brain dump, feel free to tell me to shut it.

                                "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                                -Seneca

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                                  goosehd
                                  Mod Squad
                                  Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                                  ...and probably a good time to end this conversation. Other forums better suited to self defence than here...

                                  "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

                                  last edited by 30 Jan 2025, 17:04 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
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                                    tody
                                    啓蒙家
                                    @WhiskeySandwich
                                    Joined: 24 Feb 2021

                                    @WhiskeySandwich @goosehd I'll try to resolve it - I was trying to make a sarcastic comment on yesterday's political development in Germany. hence the first part of my post addressing the no politics rule, and thus the second part asking when desperate measures are still self defense. @Tago-Mago nudged in the same direction today in the music thread, but that went rather unnoticed.
                                    Let's finish this here. I promise I won't turn on the evening news today.

                                    last edited by 30 Jan 2025, 17:18 W 1 Reply Last reply 30 Jan 2025, 17:26 Reply Quote 1
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                                      WhiskeySandwich
                                      啓蒙家
                                      @tody
                                      Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                                      @tody AH, that went over my head completely. Yeah i dont watch 'the news', i could do a whole rant about that on its own..... but i'll save it because it would probably be more appropriate for the "unpopular opinions" thread. Sorry, i was unaware of any political developments in Germany, so my comments stand alone and don't reference that.

                                      @goosehd sorry, just saw you had said something too. I hope my above-stated ignorance of the specific situation allows me some grace lol

                                      "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                                      -Seneca

                                      last edited by WhiskeySandwich 30 Jan 2025, 17:26 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
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                                        goosehd
                                        Mod Squad
                                        Joined: 8 Apr 2016

                                        Thank you both for clarification and a great spot to end this rant. Next please..,

                                        "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

                                        last edited by 30 Jan 2025, 17:29 F 1 Reply Last reply 30 Jan 2025, 17:37 Reply Quote 1
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                                          flannel slut
                                          Raw and Unwashed
                                          @goosehd
                                          Joined: 21 Feb 2022

                                          @goosehd why do they make ketchup packets in such a small size? Like who only ever uses one of those?

                                          last edited by 30 Jan 2025, 17:37 T 1 Reply Last reply 30 Jan 2025, 17:38 Reply Quote 3
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