Random questions to which you seek an answer

[northsouthdenimguy]

@Oaktavia thanks for reading it… I may have already been into a couple cocktails when I wrote it. lol

I think some of us probably think way too much about this stuff, but I’m good with that. There’s much worse things to spend your time on.

[northsouthdenimguy]

@Denimhead-0

“Steve Jobs made it so simple.”

I’m sure some people think we’re already doing this…

[RobeOfTheMagi]

I’ve been wearing my pink Patagonia Baggy's shorts for the last four weeks. That drastically reduce my mental load .

I am currently on vacation near Lake Constance and the weather is really hot with some serious storms in between.

[Oaktavia]

@northsouthdenimguy no worries at all dude, some folks prefer to wait till they are a few deep before writing. I enjoyed reading it!

[Oaktavia]

@northsouthdenimguy said in Random questions to which you seek an answer:

@Denimhead-0

“Steve Jobs made it so simple.”

I’m sure some people think we’re already doing this…

I just tell my students who are rude enough to ask why I wear the "same" thing every day (I really don't, it's just all similar looking denim) that my closet is all full with multiples of the same outfit. Like in cartoons.

[Giles]

@Oaktavia said in Random questions to which you seek an answer:

some folks prefer to wait till they are a few deep before writing.

Or, in some peoples case, before buying....We had one guy who would drop $8k or so regularly on a Saturday night, only to ask to cancel in the morning.....That's extreme, but there are plenty of you out there

[RocknRoll]

@Oaktavia
I understand the anxiety you speak of.

In my early days of IH and Japanese denim, i did what a lot of people do: i bought way too much stuff. Over time it began weighing me down - the anxiousness of feeling like i had to try every type of denim, combined with the guilt of excessive consumerism. In hindsight, in a lot of cases i think i just wanted to see and feel the product, not necessarily own it. It took me a while to realise this.

I stepped right back for a number of years. I still wore good jeans in that time, but would go months (even years) without looking at things online and drooling over them. It was amazingly liberating - i was oblivious to whatever was going on in the denim world.

The (unintended) tradeoff for me was that i got heavily into guitar building in that period, and ended up with way too many guitars. I guess it’s my personality to go a bit over the top when i find something i like!

These days, i’m fairly restrained with my denim purchases, although arguably still have too many jeans. The other thing that’s changed (although i can’t put my finger on why) is that i don’t give a fuck about fades. At all. I love the look of new jeans just as much as old ones.

Just my story…all the best finding a strategy that works for you. Cheers!

[twinning]

@Oaktavia Very late to this party but yes, I too ADHD & OCD the f**k out of my jeans, for maybe 3 years now. There's such a tension between the minimalist, own fewer but better things mentality that's so deeply ingrained in much of the heritagewear community, and the fact we live within capitalism. I don't mean that as a throwaway, old commie yells at clouds statement but the brands that produce the clothes we love have to sell more to survive. And they make really cool stuff, and I want that stuff, and on and on it goes. I'm so glad I'm not really into the crazy fabrics like SDA or Samurai--though they're both absolutely gorgeous--'cause if I were I'd have a real problem lol.

I just want one all-around, wear with everything pair of jeans. I don't want to wear any other style of pant, or shorts, or multiple pairs of jeans to rotate through. Just one denim in one cut that works, and that's the quest I've been on. For better or worse, Levi's won the global fashion game and jeans go literally with everything in every context now, and I want basically what everyone's wearing just better than what everyone's wearing, or at least that's how I think about it most of the time.

But then there's so much out there and how do you know if you like something unless you try it? I was listening to Derek Guy (menswearguy) on some podcast and he told a story of someone who'd never thought about jeans until he went into a slightly higher-end store and had help finding that "perfect" pair and he walked out so happy with what was undoubtedly the best pair of jeans he'd ever had in his life, with all sorts of little details that were miles above anything he'd ever had and he'd never even thought of before.

And then he was instantly miserable because it occurred to him, thinking about all these new things, that if this pair of jeans was so good, maybe there was a more perfect pair out there somewhere for him. And that's the paradox of choice and freedom that I feel trapped in most of the time. Like, these 888s are sooooooo good, but what if the 1955 is better, for me?

How did I get "into" denim? I saw a post on r/rawdenim of a beautifully faded pair of 888s-142, worn by a woman who's name I don't know for one of the indigo invitational years, and her post said she'd done the invitational in an effort to cut down on decision fatigue because she'd been spending too much energy thinking about what to wear in the morning. And I thought: yes, I too spend too much time thinking about clothes and what to wear, and I want my jeans to look like that! I'll do what she did!

And I've spent infinitely more time thinking about clothes since that decision than I ever had before lol.

Last quick story: My dissertation advisor, an established tenured professor, wore black jeans and a black T and an indigo Levi's trucker jacket. Every. Single. Day. I was chatting with him in his office one time and somehow we started talking about student evals and he said the funniest one he ever got was a student saying he was dirty because he wore the same thing every day. He then said, completely serious: I have a closet at home with 20 of these jackets. So I guess at the end of the day ya' just gotta do what works for you and I'm not trying to end this sentence as advice but more like the broader "you" that includes me.

[Oaktavia]

Thank y'all for the this discussion, it was insightful to read through everyone's perspectives. I think what I will do is stick to my plan and fade the feck outta one main pair and have a side pair that I wear once or twice a week. I'll get through them eventually.

I seek the fadiest of fades I can't stop that!!!

[Jord]

@Oaktavia When I think of forum legends of fades I think of you and twin, so happy to hear you'll do that. But also like you mentioned don't feel bad for changing it up a few days a week, it shouldn't feel like a full-time job to wear your denim haha

[NickD]

I can see the attraction of a ‘one good thing’ minimalist attitude, but can’t quite do it myself.

I work on the basis that if I’m using it, it stays if I’m not, it goes. And anything I buy has to have purpose and be of a certain quality. Not just clothes, it applies to everything - having an excess bugs me.

I’ve also sold quite a few pairs of shoes and clothes over the past couple of years. Shoes especially, I need a rotation that I wear regularly and are comfortable. Multiple pairs of redundant well made shoes just means none get broken in properly.

To add, that doesn’t mean I don’t own lots of something I’m enthusiastic about, but if I do, everything gets used. Records are a great example of that, they all get played and the ones that don’t go.