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Alright boys help guide my moral compass
I had this buddy
He got a girl friend
Stopped answer his phone
Stopped responding to texts
But he still talked to my folks
A lot
And then fucked my old man over on a fairly large deal
So two years later I got this text
What should my course of action here be?
Am I wrong to be offended by this?
Does this seem odd to anyone else?
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Wow-this sounds as if out of a movie or novel.
You are surely not wrong to be offended, that's putting it mildly.
Ignoring it seems the obvious course, unless you feel you could either achieve something regarding this "deal" where he wronged your dad, or, on a totally different front, regarding your own closure about the loss of a friend. I'd sleep a night or two over it, do what you do, namely consult a few people I trust (ideally including someone who knows you and that guy personally) and then make up my mind.
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simple, "Red Wedding"
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Depending on your previous relationship with dude maybe you should be the bigger man and respond with, "let's grab a beer", or whatever you'll used to bond over. . .
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No, no, no, you guys have it all wrong: he said he wants you to be "apart of" (sic) his wedding party. He doesn't want you anywhere near Jamaica on those dates.
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Mclain,
every once in a while you are funny . . . this isn't one of those times, hahahahaha
j/k
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Yeah, the guy is obviously a douche. Just ignore it and wait for him to go through the proper channels, i.e. picking up the phone like an adult and asking you, at the very least.
Yup
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all right, if you want to take the MAN route, here is what you do.
1. you pick up the phone & you call the guy & you tell him you two need to have a conversation, it can be over a brew or whatever you all used to do when you were still buddies.
2. when you meet with the guy (if he accepts the invite) you explain what you think about the invite to his beheading, i mean wedding (glad he invited you, it's weird that he invited you, why did he break-up with you as you were ready to come out the closet for him). you also talk to him about anything else you may have issue with him over & once done you move on.
3. be prepared to stomp a mud-hole in his a$$ since folks don't usually take to kindly to being called out, but at the same time you have to be willing to actually listen to what he says cause the way you react says about as much about you as it does about him.
most importantly & seriously it's about you & what you do in the world while you still have ten toes on top of the dirt. f^ck the u can feel right about ignoring him & the guy is a d!ckhead, scumbag, or anything else that may be said. when it boils down to it that sh!t isn't good enough for you & your Pop's didn't raise you to be a b!tch. he raised you to be a man, being a man means sometimes you just gotta do sh!t you don't want to do cause it's the right thing to do . . . .
*drops the mic & steps of his soap box, hahahahahahahaha
whatever you do, good luck nate. i swear i'm going to start an advice thread so i can spout off my skewed-f^cked up views, hahahahahaha
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Tell the dude honestly what you think Nate, hold nothing back, gauge his response on the spot and choose 1 of the following 3 options…
Smack him in the mouth
Give him a man hug
Walk the fuck away before you kill the son of a bitch
