Random questions to which you seek an answer
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simple, "Red Wedding"
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Depending on your previous relationship with dude maybe you should be the bigger man and respond with, "let's grab a beer", or whatever you'll used to bond over. . .
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No, no, no, you guys have it all wrong: he said he wants you to be "apart of" (sic) his wedding party. He doesn't want you anywhere near Jamaica on those dates.
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Mclain,
every once in a while you are funny . . . this isn't one of those times, hahahahaha
j/k
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Yeah, the guy is obviously a douche. Just ignore it and wait for him to go through the proper channels, i.e. picking up the phone like an adult and asking you, at the very least.
Yup
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all right, if you want to take the MAN route, here is what you do.
1. you pick up the phone & you call the guy & you tell him you two need to have a conversation, it can be over a brew or whatever you all used to do when you were still buddies.
2. when you meet with the guy (if he accepts the invite) you explain what you think about the invite to his beheading, i mean wedding (glad he invited you, it's weird that he invited you, why did he break-up with you as you were ready to come out the closet for him). you also talk to him about anything else you may have issue with him over & once done you move on.
3. be prepared to stomp a mud-hole in his a$$ since folks don't usually take to kindly to being called out, but at the same time you have to be willing to actually listen to what he says cause the way you react says about as much about you as it does about him.
most importantly & seriously it's about you & what you do in the world while you still have ten toes on top of the dirt. f^ck the u can feel right about ignoring him & the guy is a d!ckhead, scumbag, or anything else that may be said. when it boils down to it that sh!t isn't good enough for you & your Pop's didn't raise you to be a b!tch. he raised you to be a man, being a man means sometimes you just gotta do sh!t you don't want to do cause it's the right thing to do . . . .
*drops the mic & steps of his soap box, hahahahahahahaha
whatever you do, good luck nate. i swear i'm going to start an advice thread so i can spout off my skewed-f^cked up views, hahahahahaha
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Tell the dude honestly what you think Nate, hold nothing back, gauge his response on the spot and choose 1 of the following 3 options…
Smack him in the mouth
Give him a man hug
Walk the fuck away before you kill the son of a bitch
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^oh fuck this is going to go straight to his head.
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I'd never forgive someone who fucked over family. This guy would be permanently cut loose.
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wow, that's a lot of bread. . . .you all had to be really tight for your fam to "loan/gift" that amount on a smile & a handshake. hope it works out & good luck.
thanks sabergirl, i find women/girls usually make the best men
at least that's what D666 told me, hahahahahahaMcl, never & forever are words i used in my teens, i'm way past them as everything can be negotiated & has grey areas . . . unless you talking math, than it's 2 + 2 = 4
oh & going back a few with my carrot shaped jean, think i might give the Left Field NYC Chelsea fit a go or get some jeans i have sitting changed to that fit. will keep you all posted . . .
