Parenting

[Oaktavia]

Nothing to report parenting-wise yet but our baby Jack Hickory is 20 weeks and one day old in utero. Halfway there, Amanda is feeling kicks when we lay down for bedtime. I felt one last night! It was so cool to make contact!

[Danimal506]

@Oaktavia Awesome! That’s great to hear man. My wife feels lots of kicks too, but they’re from our 3yo

[Oaktavia]

@Danimal506

[scarfmace]

the kicks I get from my boys are to be avoided, Jiu-Jitsu lessons are starting to come back to bite me in the ass

[EdH]

“Like daddy’s” she said. 🥰

[Oaktavia]

@EdH hahaha

[endo]

she's got so much your eyes @EdH

[Brian]

8 and a half
Where the time has gone who knows
Short weekend away at the usual beach house even if it gone cold and rainy

[chillmonroe]

My boys hangin at the skate shop this weekend 🛹

[EdH]

I can announce that Mrs H and I are expecting again. About 12 weeks in. Little Miss H was non-plussed at the news.

@Oaktavia i make it that we are about 10 weeks behind you guys!

[Alex]

Congrats mate

[goosehd]

Congratulations!!

[Tago Mago]

@EdH congrats! Maybe little Miss H just misses the mustache?

[Oaktavia]

@EdH that is awesome man! So your due date is at the end of November? I think I counted that correctly. Stoked for you and the misses!

[EdH]

Thanks all! It took over a year of trying this time (and, of course, happened naturally as soon as we dropped thousands of monies on a course of IVF) so we're pretty stoked.

@Oaktavia Yep, the very end of Nov or the beginning of Dec. Kinda cool that we'll be going through it at the same time, if you ask me. I've mostly forgotten what those early days and weeks are like, so it'll be good to have the refresher course of your experience to remind me!

[ARNC]

@EdH congratulations! I confess I did zoom in to see if there was a hint of a moustache on the scan

[Oaktavia]

@EdH said in Parenting:

@Oaktavia Yep, the very end of Nov or the beginning of Dec. Kinda cool that we'll be going through it at the same time, if you ask me. I've mostly forgotten what those early days and weeks are like, so it'll be good to have the refresher course of your experience to remind me!

Heck yeah dude I agree, it is cool that we'll be going through it at the same time. Amanda is starting to really feel kicks and headbutts on her belly as of late. I know nothing but early to mid days at this point. It has been really fun and quite the learning experience.

[EdH]

@Oaktavia said in Parenting:

I know nothing but early to mid days at this point. It has been really fun and quite the learning experience.

Pro-tip: go to parenting classes near you if you can. It's not for the information necessarily, which can all be found online. It's to get access to a ready-made, local network of other parents who will be going through the same first-baby thing at the same time as you. Mrs H said that the best thing about it was having a WhatsApp group set up afterwards where if she was up feeding the baby at 3am she knew there was a good chance that at least one of the other new mums would be in the same situation, and they could keep one another sane.

[Oaktavia]

@EdH Oh yes, our classes start next month at the Women's Clinic with a group of parents in our birthing group. We are going to miss the first one because Amanda will be in California but should be able to make the others.

[SKT]

@EdH congratulations to you and your wife. 2 is a whole new ballgame!