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    steelworker
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    @goosehd
    Joined: 16 Apr 2014

    @goosehd thats the truth

    Those are my principles, and if you don't like them…
    Well, I have others.

    last edited by steelworker 4 Jun 2024, 01:42 6 Apr 2024, 01:36 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
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      Mizmazzle
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      Joined: 29 Jun 2021

      The school called me this evening about an hour after I left the interview to offer me the job…

      I was incredibly humbled they chose me. However, after two interviews it’s didn’t feel like the right fit…I declined the offer. And so the game continues.

      In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

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        endo
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        Joined: 29 May 2020

        Great, what an encouragement. And even greater that you listen to your feelings and declined. This is the best way to find the place where you actually belong to.

        si tacuisses

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          IrishHeart
          Haraki san Expert
          @Mizmazzle
          Joined: 1 Mar 2023

          @Mizmazzle congratulations on being offered the job, and even bigger congratulations on deciding to turn it down. Life’s too short to work at something that isn’t right for you. You’ll know when the right opportunity comes along.

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            Mizmazzle
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            Joined: 29 Jun 2021

            @endo @IrishHeart

            Those affirmations mean a lot to me. I was really struggling letting this opportunity go by. Wasn’t really sure where to place the source of my anxiety. I’ve been at the same school now for ten years. I have deep roots there. Leaving is going to be really hard. And while I’m ready for a change, this new position gave me very little excitement and overwhelming anxiety. Thanks to advice from my wife and my current principal that is right in line with what y’all are saying, I let the offer go…I Woke up this morning feeling completely confident I did what was best for my own happiness. Life is too short. I’m looking for something that adds to my happiness…that new place just wasn’t it.

            In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

            last edited by Mizmazzle 4 Jun 2024, 14:37 6 Apr 2024, 14:31 G 1 Reply Last reply 6 Apr 2024, 14:34 Reply Quote 10
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              goosehd
              Mod Squad
              @Mizmazzle
              Joined: 8 Apr 2016

              @Mizmazzle Congratulations on so many levels!! There's a lot of maturity and wisdom in all of the decisions you've made and I am positive everything will work out in your favour for future opportunities.

              "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

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                Mizmazzle
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                Joined: 29 Jun 2021

                Thanks Dennis. I felt like I was breaking up with a girlfriend when I returned that phone call to the Assistant Principal.
                She was super enthusiastic: “Hey!! So, we’d love you to the join the team!!”
                Me, feigned enthusiasm: “Oh wow! That’s…insane! Haha. Um, I just don’t think this is going to work out.”
                Dead air…..

                In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

                last edited by 6 Apr 2024, 14:45 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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                  Mizmazzle
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                  Joined: 29 Jun 2021

                  Well, the head of the school just reached out to me about 20 minutes ago…can’t help but feeling incredibly humbled…IMG_7067.jpeg

                  In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

                  last edited by Mizmazzle 4 Jun 2024, 15:44 6 Apr 2024, 15:42 I 1 Reply Last reply 6 Apr 2024, 16:40 Reply Quote 3
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                    IrishHeart
                    Haraki san Expert
                    @Mizmazzle
                    Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                    @Mizmazzle isn’t that great. A classy message from the guy, and you clearly made a brilliant impression on the school. You never know what life holds, and it maybe that sometime in the future there is an opportunity to work there which will be of more interest to you.
                    In the meantime, that affirmation should give you lots of confidence for any other positions you put yourself forward for.

                    last edited by 6 Apr 2024, 16:40 M 1 Reply Last reply 6 Apr 2024, 17:36 Reply Quote 0
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                      Mizmazzle
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                      @IrishHeart
                      Joined: 29 Jun 2021

                      @IrishHeart Talk about making a guy feel valued!! I'm going to take the time to talk to him. I feel like I can be direct and 100% open now. During the interview you have to project an all "On Board" persona, even if you are having some doubts, otherwise the offer may not come.
                      I feel really good about being able to talk to the guy on clear and straightforward terms now. Who knows, he may have some valid information that helps me to move forward.
                      Besides, he's a fellow fly fisherman...that says a lot in my book.

                      In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

                      last edited by Mizmazzle 4 Jun 2024, 17:36 6 Apr 2024, 17:36 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
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                        pechelman
                        啓蒙家
                        Joined: 24 Jan 2022

                        Congrats on the offer! It feels great to be wanted and even if this isn't the right role you at least have gained a little more interviewing experience and the insight into what you're looking for to help you find the right fit for everyone.

                        The only thing I might have done differently is to have asked for the weekend to think over your decision rather than immediately turning it down even if you know it's not the right fit.

                        last edited by 6 Apr 2024, 17:59 M 1 Reply Last reply 6 Apr 2024, 18:12 Reply Quote 0
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                          Mizmazzle
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                          @pechelman
                          Joined: 29 Jun 2021

                          @pechelman Yeah...I def thought about asking that. I guess I ended up not doing so because it was causing me so much strife, I didn't want to prolong what I knew was the inevitable. His reaching out to me to give me that option anyway really has been nice. Going to take a hike tomorrow and get my thoughts in order and come with a focused list of concerns I have and see what he says...

                          Could be a good time to push for a two day work week, full pay!!

                          In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

                          last edited by 6 Apr 2024, 18:12 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
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                            Giles
                            IHUK Crew
                            Joined: 22 Sept 2009

                            A week ago today, I had a total (Japanese Ceramic apparently) replacement of my lefty (sic) hip.

                            Well, a week down the road and, I am already significantly better than I was before the op. I am not in any pain (I forgot to take the drugs yesterday, and I was fine.

                            My range of movement is better than prior to the op, and I can positively jog up and downstairs.

                            Frankly, it is amazing and I am in awe of the medical team who fixed me.

                            I'm at the heaviest I have ever been (about 12lb above where I feel good about myself), probably because I could not do much before the op, and Paula has been rewarding me with loads of chocolate biscuits since

                            Physio starts in a week, so I am keen to get 100% fit again and lose those excess pounds.

                            For sale, one set of crutches, as new 🙂

                            "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                              sabergirl
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                              Joined: 4 Oct 2013

                              Wonderful news, Giles!! I’m so glad you’re feeling more like your old self. You’ll be back in shape in no time, I’m sure.

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                                WhiskeySandwich
                                啓蒙家
                                @Giles
                                Joined: 1 Mar 2023

                                @Giles congrats on a successful op! Glad it's already an improvement. Enjoy that increased mobility!

                                "The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today...The whole future lies in uncertainty: Live immediately."
                                -Seneca

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                                  EdH
                                  Iron Heart Deity
                                  Joined: 2 Jan 2022

                                  I wish you a speedy recovery @Giles! One of my aunties is the bionic woman at this point - she has an arthritic condition - and has had both hips and knees done. She'd recommend that you do everything the physio suggests; like you say, having the op done gave her a new lease on life too and makes that so much easier!

                                  Take the dive...

                                  last edited by EdH 4 Sept 2024, 11:50 9 Apr 2024, 11:49 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
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                                    A Former User
                                    @Giles
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                                    @Giles good to hear Giles and i’m happy you feel better now! But what would you expect from a Japanese piece 🤣 keep on rocking and i wish you a speedy recovery

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                                      Oaktavia
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                                      @Giles
                                      Joined: 12 Jun 2019

                                      @Giles glad to hear it went well man. Chocolate biscuits sound great.

                                      IG: electricindigowizard

                                      "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

                                      WTB: IHJ-72- XL/XXL

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                                        SKT
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                                        @Giles
                                        Joined: 26 Aug 2019

                                        @Giles great news! Modern medicine is so amazing!

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                                          louisbosco
                                          啓蒙家
                                          Joined: 21 Feb 2013

                                          get well mate! @Giles

                                          "Loyalty is a two way street. If i'm asking for it from you, then you're getting it from me."

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