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    • den1mheadD
      den1mhead
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      3 months ago today, 16th April 2022, my mum sadly died. She was 73 years old with the energy, drive and passion of a woman 20 years younger. She was one of four sisters and was the youngest of the bunch. She was on her way to see her older sister, to help her with shopping which was something she did often. My mum was always helping other people.

      At around 10am on 16/4/2022 my mum was driving down Budby Road, Cuckney, on the A616 near Mansfield. On the other side of the road was a car sat stationary, waiting to turn into Hazel Gap Barn, waiting for my mums car to pass by before making the turn. A third car, on the same side of the road as the stationary car was approaching at speed and hadn't noticed that the car ahead was stationary. At the last instant the car took avoiding action and turned away from the stationary car into the oncoming lane.

      My mum was pronounced dead at the scene at approx 10:30am. The driver who caused the head on collision went to hospital with serious injuries. The driver in the stationary car went to hospital with non life threatening injuries.

      Over the last three months our lives haven't felt like our own. We have had to attend to my mums funeral and make arrangements with her house. As her only child the organising has fallen on me but with the support of Jules we have made it through to this point. Living 200 miles from my mums house we have been making regular trips to and from her place to manage and implement the activities that typically follow the death of a loved one.

      We left her house for the last time last yesterday, leaving it ready for handover to a new owner which is still some months away. The whirlwind that has been the last three months has now settled and the reality of being without my mum is sinking in.

      The forum is many things to many people and right now it has helped me to write about what happened to my mum and to post this. RIP Yvonne Judy Roberts ❤️❤️❤️

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      • dinobarnesberlinD
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        Thats great to hear Mo. Prayers Do work! Hope you can go home soon @Kasi .

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        • NikN
          Nik
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          Condolences @den1mhead that sounds very tough.

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          • TwistlockT
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            My sincere condolences @den1mhead, so sad to lose a loved one like this.

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            • dinobarnesberlinD
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              Yea man –sorry to hear that ...condolences to you both.

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              • endoE
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                My heartfelt condolences on the passing of your mum.

                si tacuisses

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                • GilesG
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                  So sorry @den1mhead what a nightmare…..

                  "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                  • ChapC
                    Chap
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                    So sorry Barcley… my warmest condolences

                    God has blessed you richly, so get down on your knees and thank him. Don’t forget the less fortunate or God will personally kick your ass. I’d love to do it for him, but I can’t be everywhere. Willie Nelson

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                    • ARNCA
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                      Sorry to hear this @den1mhead.  That sounds really tough.

                      I'm reading this exactly 4 years after I lost my mum (although my sister and I had about 6 months to prepare for the inevitable).  I can't begin to imagine what you have been through.

                      “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

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                      • GilesG
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                        Not the most symmetrical egg I have ever seen…..

                        "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                        • den1mheadD
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                          ^ Thanks fellas for your kind and considered words which are truly appreciated ❤️

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                          • chiverusC
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                            @den1mhead oh man, all my sympathy to you and your loved ones

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                            • KasiK
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                              @den1mhead

                              My condolences 💐

                              Stay strong…

                              I loss my mum overnight in hospital.. I know the feeling.

                              Don’t let yourself down, think of the happy moments you have with her..

                              One thing for sure time will heal you.

                              Mo

                              The world's insane
                              While you drink champagne
                              And I'm livin' in black rain 4Q 🖕

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                              • dinobarnesberlinD
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                                @Giles:

                                Not the most symmetrical egg I have ever seen…..

                                You sure that's not Seul`s ?

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                                • KasiK
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                                  Ha ha ha

                                  Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

                                  The world's insane
                                  While you drink champagne
                                  And I'm livin' in black rain 4Q 🖕

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                                  • jerkulesJ
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                                    @den1mhead I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. It’s unimaginable how painful it must be for you.

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                                    • J
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                                      @den1mhead Also so saddened to hear of your Moms tragic passing.

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                                      • SeulS
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                                        @dinobarnesberlin:

                                        You sure that's not Seul`s ?

                                        Your mum says mine's more symmetrical.

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                                          What a tragic loss, [mention]den1mhead [/mention] . I’m so sorry, Barcley. Our thoughts are with you.

                                          Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

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                                          • mclaincauseyM
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                                            Love and light to @den1mhead ❤

                                            Think it, be it.

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