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    • J
      Jett129
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      What if he came home from school the next day and kids had asked him why he wasn't there,and that caused him to feel bad,or left out or something? Then you're on the hot seat unless you OK it with him up front. At some point you might be having a Bday party for him and you'll want the other kids parents to reciprocate. My son is fast approaching 25 and it seems like those days were a lifetime ago. Good luck.

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      • gaseousclayG
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        @Jett129:

        What if he came home from school the next day and kids had asked him why he wasn't there,and that caused him to feel bad,or left out or something? Then you're on the hot seat unless you OK it with him up front. At some point you might be having a Bday party for him and you'll want the other kids parents to reciprocate. My son is fast approaching 25 and it seems like those days were a lifetime ago. Good luck.

        I'll be going but I heard from the mom that there will only be 2-3 other kids. However, I'll drop my son off and they can chaperone while i'm out running errands. Also, since we're in a split household my son knows that he gets multiple parties with me, his mom and both grandparents, which puts us in a unique situation. When I celebrate his bday it's just me and him. When he celebrates his bday with his mom it's with his friends from his neighborhood of which there are probably 8-10 kids plus his friends from when he was in daycare.

        WTB:
        IHSH-129 size L (blue)
        IHSH-19

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        • neph93N
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          @Stuart.T:

          Maybe I/we all should give more thought about the need for a WAYWT thread at all. Validation addiction is a hell of a thing.

          WAYWT has been central to this forum and to net based fashion/clothing communities since these things came into existence so I don't think it will be going anywhere. The reasons people use it are many and seeking validation (which is a legitimate human behaviour, psychologically speaking) may well be one, for some. Obviously anything taken to extremes is unhealthy.

          I've thought about x-posting more myself. It's something I try to avoid but I think that if it keeps product threads relevant then it's probably a good thing on balance.

          “Some of those that work forces
          Are the same that burn crosses”

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          • GilesG
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            Double posting does not bother me at all (if used sensibly).

            There will be people who only look at certain threads.  So only posting in WAYWT may mean great product images are missed.

            Getting some more visual content in the product threads is central to my original idea of linking the product page to the relevant forum thread, so potential customers could see how things looked like in real life…

            "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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            • J
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              All the photography that people,take the time to do,regardless of their motivation, has been incredibly helpful to me when it comes time to pull the trigger on an item that I might be on the fence about,or had previously not even considered. I really appreciate it and when I can try to return the favor.

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              • gaseousclayG
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                @Giles:

                Double posting does not bother me at all (if used sensibly).

                There will be people who only look at certain threads.  So only posting in WAYWT may mean great product images are missed.

                Getting some more visual content in the product threads is central to my original idea of linking the product page to the relevant forum thread, so potential customers could see how things looked like in real life…

                Agree. There are product threads I pay no attention to but I do look at the WAYWT daily because this is likely where most people will post.

                WTB:
                IHSH-129 size L (blue)
                IHSH-19

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                • DougNgD
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                  Heading to Upstate NY this weekend for an old friends wedding. While I'm looking forward to seeing my old college friends, I tend to be a shit magnet and attract every dipshit in the room that feels the need to drop an asinine comment on some aspect of my being or offer unsolicited advice on a topic they have no subject matter expertise.
                  Thank God Jody will be there to run interference or I'd strangle someone.

                  I know violence is not the answer, I got it wrong on purpose

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                  • gaseousclayG
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                    @DougNg:

                    Heading to Upstate NY this weekend for an old friends wedding. While I'm looking forward to seeing my old college friends, I tend to be a shit magnet and attract every dipshit in the room that feels the need to drop an asinine comment on some aspect of my being or offer unsolicited advice on a topic they have no subject matter expertise.
                    Thank God Jody will be there to run interference or I'd strangle someone.

                    Just drop a casual Airplane reference to shut them up. "Have you ever seen a grown man naked?"  😃

                    WTB:
                    IHSH-129 size L (blue)
                    IHSH-19

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                    • DougNgD
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                      I wish I were eloquent enough to just quote a movie

                      Hour 1: passive aggressive sarcasm

                      "How have I made it though life this far without your unsolicited advice?"

                      Hour 2: actively aggressive analogies

                      "Your life must be like watching porn in slow motion, what's usually a normal event is now an awkward boner"

                      Hour 3: just being mean

                      "Your voice is like listening to a leaky anus"

                      Which is why Jody doesn't let me to go to social events alone.

                      I know violence is not the answer, I got it wrong on purpose

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                      • JDelageJ
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                        Maybe there would be a way for WAYWT post tagged with a IH product (say @IHSH-76 for example) to automatically be posted in the relevant product thread…

                        OR

                        Is there a way to post in 2+ threads in one time?

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                        • neph93N
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                          @JDelage:

                          Maybe there would be a way for WAYWT post tagged with a IH product (say @IHSH-76 for example) to automatically be posted in the relevant product thread…

                          OR

                          Is there a way to post in 2+ threads in one time?

                          I think I mentioned this earlier but the tagging option has been discussed and at least superficially explored. The problem is that the forum runs on a relatively simple, straightforward platform and the processing power and programming required to tag and cross-reference effectively is still quite high end. This is why we only see it working well on the major social media platforms like IG and Twitter.

                          I suspect the automatic double posting, while simpler, would also require a higher level of functionality than is current workable on the forum engine.

                          “Some of those that work forces
                          Are the same that burn crosses”

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                          • ChrisC
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                            In addition, multi-thread auto posting would probably piss off a lot of members, perhaps more members than it would satisfy.

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                            • JDelageJ
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                              Fair enough.

                              Another impediment (for me at least) to posting pics in the relevant product thread is that more often than not I don't remember the designation of the model I'm wearing….

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                              • ChrisC
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                                We're going to visit my family in Charlotte for the week, and we booked flights to leave today at 1:45 pm.  Overnight, at 2 am, our flight was cancelled.

                                Fuck you, Frontier.

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                                • mikebarhootM
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                                  @Stuart.T:

                                  I occasionally double post in WAYWT for exactly @neph93 concern about original item threads being under used. It doesn't bother me too much.

                                  Maybe I/we all should give more thought about the need for a WAYWT thread at all. Validation addiction is a hell of a thing.

                                  I try to do just that but someone keeps deleting my Crocs thread!

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                                  • ColeC
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                                    Someone in my town won 18.000.000,00 € in the lottery yesterday and it ain't me. F U C K ! ! ! ! !  😠 ::) 😞

                                    WTB:
                                    IHJ-96-OLV Size L
                                    IHE-13

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                                    • Stuart.TS
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                                      My approach to double posting is that I only ever do it once per item purchased, and generally because I become an over excited child.

                                      I put a few fit pics on the item page and one 'look how f-ing cool I think I look' x post in the WAYWT thread. Then I calm down and go away for a few days to give everyone a break from my insesent b.s.  😉

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                                      • gaseousclayG
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                                        @Stuart.T:

                                        My approach to double posting is that I only ever do it once per item purchased, and generally because I become an over excited child.

                                        I put a few fit pics on the item page and one 'look how f-ing cool I think I look' x post in the WAYWT thread. Then I calm down and go away for a few days to give everyone a break from my insesent b.s.  😉

                                        I think double posting is fine. I usually check the waywt thread but I don’t always check the product thread, especially if it’s something I don’t own.

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                                        WTB:
                                        IHSH-129 size L (blue)
                                        IHSH-19

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                                        • GilesG
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                                          I have removed some posts here.  There are some differences of opinion about what is political and what is not.

                                          "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                                          • louisboscoL
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                                            got to paris. got a flat as well. f**k

                                            "Loyalty is a two way street. If i'm asking for it from you, then you're getting it from me."

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