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    • pillowPANTSP
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      Oh well, atleast you arent stuck there all day. And thx buddy

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      • Madame ButtonflyM
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        OK, here goes… after seeing the doctor in early October with a swollen gland at the base of my neck, and loads of subsequent tests, x-rays, scans and biopsies, I was diagnosed in late November with Hodgkin’s lymphoma (a type of cancer of the lymphatic system).

        The reasons for this random announcement:

        • I’m losing tracking of who we’ve told and who we haven’t so felt it was probably easiest to tell everyone (and I apologise sincerely to all those I meant to contact personally).

        • to reassure my dear forum friends that I am hale and hearty!  First of 12 chemotherapy sessions was today, and so far so good.  The treatment has a great track record of complete cure – no guarantees of course, but we are feeling very positive.

        • to explain that I’m run ragged at present – hospital trips, keeping friends and family informed etc. is taking up so much time that I already didn’t have, so please excuse my absence from the forum, and delays in answering PMs and emails (please go to Giles or Matt if anything is urgent).

        The next six months or so are likely to be challenging at times for all of The Stubborn Crew.  I have set up a separate blog www.thelymphodiaries.com so that friends and family can check on my progress if/when they want to without me having to bore everyone rigid, including myself.

        Oh, and this year we’ve made a donation to MacMillan Cancer Support instead of sending out cards and stuff – I am sure you will understand.

        Fondest wishes to all for the Christmas and New Year Holidays – I, for one, intend to have a ball!

        😘

        AKA Mrs G

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          We all love you, P!  Stay stubborn and strong, I'm sure I speak for everyone when I say that we will be wishing you well everyday from here on out  😘

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          • SeulS
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            Keep your head up and keep us posted. Shit news but let's stay positive!..

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            • GilesG
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              For one, I am completely humbled by how brave she is being (I'll get a massive bollocking for saying that).

              But, I have to say I quite looking forward to not being the only adult in this family with hair loss issues…..

              "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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              • seanoconoS
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                I don't know what to say, Paula, other than I know you will pull through.  Attitude is everything, and you are going about it the right way.

                We love you, support you, and our thoughts are with you.

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                • summ3rhaysS
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                  Stay strong and positive.  You have all our thoughts and prayers.

                  IG: summ3rhays & Indigobleed

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                  • Madame ButtonflyM
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                    @Giles:

                    For one, I am completely humbled by how brave she is being (I'll get a massive bollocking for saying that).

                    But, I have to say I quite looking forward to not being the only adult in this family with hair loss issues…..

                    Ach, feel such a fraud - can honestly say that the only painful thing to date has been telling family and friends, in the grand scheme of things I am very lucky.  And I should point out that my hair will grow back…  😉

                    AKA Mrs G

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                    • pillowPANTSP
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                      Take a break and relax yourself P. Do what you need to stay fresh and positive. U will be in Genny and my prayers. U are a great lady and i know you will be fine 🙂

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                      • Jordan23J
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                        Bad news. Wish you all the best P.!

                        AE

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                        • DougNgD
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                          We have been and will continue to be here for you Paula

                          Jody, Steven and Doug

                          I know violence is not the answer, I got it wrong on purpose

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                          • SaschaVSS
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                            my sweet Paula! G told me that today and all we (Ankie and me) can say is, that we send all the power we have straight to you and we are really sorry! Cancer is a diagnosis which makes everyone feel like getting hit by a huge hammer! So do I! Even if it´s not me! We are there for you no matter what and when! Besides that you have some really strong partners around you!! We wish you all the best and a wonderful christmas!!!! Love you!!!

                            Cancer feck off!!!!

                            IHFFIH

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                            • B
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                              Sorry to hear about that Mme B. I am convinced that the support of loved ones and a thrice daily dose of laughter can go a long way to curing most ills. May I then suggest a session or 2 of Sean Lock, a sprinkling of Michael Mcintyre and a hearty bout of caustic Bill Hicks? Maybe wash that down with a bit of Pilkington and Baileys (fire a few cheeky ones in, well it is xmas 😉 ). Big love from France xxx

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                              • Megatron1505M
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                                Wishing you a speedy recovery and a Merry Christmas, you know where we are should you need anything.

                                Gav, Pam and Tommy  😘

                                Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                                • ChrisC
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                                  @Giles:

                                  But, I have to say I quite looking forward to not being the only adult in this family with hair loss issues…..

                                  Bet you a fiver she'll look better bald than you ever did with hair.

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                                  • mclaincauseyM
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                                    Prayers, thoughts, and my best vibrations y'all's way Paula 🙂

                                    Think it, be it.

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                                    • Megatron1505M
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                                      @Chris:

                                      @Giles:

                                      But, I have to say I quite looking forward to not being the only adult in this family with hair loss issues…..

                                      Bet you a fiver she'll look better bald than you ever did with hair.

                                      The triumvirate could easily become a quartet temporarily.

                                      Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                                      • PeterP
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                                        hope everything goes well! the padmores will be in my thoughts this holiday 🙂

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                                        • ArabitA
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                                          Wishing you a speedy recovery Madame.

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                                          • T
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                                            Wishing you a speedy recovery Paula. we will be praying for you.
                                            From the twins and famliy. PS the announcement by Paula brought tears to my eyes. Take care Paula we all love you 😘 😘 😘

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