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    • GilesG
      Giles
      IHUK Crew
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      It sounds so unreasonable doesn't it, "he dumped me for a pair of jeans".

      But what you wear is you, it defines what you are and who you are. Being told not to be you is very non-trivial IMHO.

      Edit: Ask her to join you on one of the Happy Hours, that should fix it 🙂

      "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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      • FlavourFadeF
        FlavourFade
        Raw and Unwashed
        @Gammaman
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        @Gammaman I have been in toxic relationships and it took years of my life from me. I'm talking physical and mental abuse and there were signs I did not want to see. I don't know you or your partner but it seems unhealthy to make threads against things she don't aprove and also she should like you for who you are no matter what you are wearing.

        My girlfriend knows how much I love denim and she don't care about clothes too much. Sometimes she asks me too wear this or that for dinner because she likes it but mostly she lets me do my denim thing and no matter what I look like she loves me and that's the thing... Maybe you can compromise, for example I have bought some nice 555 duck pants because my girl asked to maybe on one day in the week I don't go all indigo... So I had an excuse to buy something nice and she likes when I wear it.

        In the end you have to decide what you gonna do about it but if you were my buddy I would say leave while you can. My life got better by 100% when I did

        Insta: free_the_fades

        wtb:
        The Pale Rider XXL

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        • Luijim78L
          Luijim78
          啓蒙家
          @Gammaman
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          @Gammaman I believe that some compromise in a relationship is inevitable and even healthy (at least in my case because I don't like a lot about myself and if someone I love helps me "file my rough edges" it's welcome). Having said that, however, if someone wants to distort or shape us, in my opinion this has little to do with love and a lot to do with control. If you have the feeling that the hated Bib is just the beginning, I would leave everything alone before anyone risks seriously hurting themselves.

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          • olblueO
            olblue
            Raw and Unwashed
            @FlavourFade
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            @FlavourFade I feel this…I have a nice pair of black freenote cloth Wilkes cut for special occasions. It feels nice for a fella to look a bit dressed up and impress the misses 🖤

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            • GammamanG
              Gammaman
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              Hi thanks for the great responses. I’m going to wash them and just wear them for work I think.
              No me to I can’t be dressed by a women unless I’m unable to. It’s our own choice to wear what we want and when it’s like our last little bit of freedom being taken away from us. My soul would shrivel up and die.
              For me now I’m wearing some old 14oz 777 and can’t wait for my bibs to dry.

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              • GammamanG
                Gammaman
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                This a real tear or rip caused from wear mostly from me crossing my legs. But I don’t mind it.
                These were from the first batch of 777 14oz.

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                • olblueO
                  olblue
                  Raw and Unwashed
                  @Gammaman
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                  @Gammaman man that’s a real beautiful hue with all that wear 🙌

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                  • olblueO
                    olblue
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                    IMG_1949.jpeg IMG_1948.jpeg man I’m new but love this forum and the beautiful advice you can get from it…anyways in response to @Gammaman heres my wife’s card to me with my oni! Cheers brother…life is life and sometimes finding that balance can be absolute perfection 💙

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                    • DeeDee85D
                      DeeDee85
                      啓蒙家
                      @olblue
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                      @olblue wow! That is looking incredible!

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                      • olblueO
                        olblue
                        Raw and Unwashed
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                        @DeeDee85 thanks buddy 🙌

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                        • FlavourFadeF
                          FlavourFade
                          Raw and Unwashed
                          @olblue
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                          @olblue great jacket and wife buddy

                          Insta: free_the_fades

                          wtb:
                          The Pale Rider XXL

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                          • olblueO
                            olblue
                            Raw and Unwashed
                            @FlavourFade
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                            @FlavourFade thanks so much buddy! So proud of her…all about the wife life 💙

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                            • GammamanG
                              Gammaman
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                              Nice card and thanks @olblue

                              These have dried now and I’m back wearing them while she’s at work.

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                              • weftyarnW
                                weftyarn
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                                they‘re looking fantastic @Gammaman
                                And +1 on the „stay true to what you love“

                                here‘s my 5 month SBG update

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                                Use it or lose it.

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                                • olblueO
                                  olblue
                                  Raw and Unwashed
                                  @Gammaman
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                                  @Gammaman so good 🔥 I love the bibs…another IH piece I dream of owning. Waiting for the wabash ones to drop. Keep fading these are so beautiful already

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                                  • MizmazzleM
                                    Mizmazzle
                                    見習いボス
                                    @olblue
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                                    @olblue this is so cool!! The Mrs. Is an incredible artist! Is this her path in life?

                                    In the easy chair with my boots on, melted whiskey in my hand. Could'na been asleep for more than three hours...time to go to work again...

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                                    • olblueO
                                      olblue
                                      Raw and Unwashed
                                      @Mizmazzle
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                                      @Mizmazzle it is!!! But it’s been awhile since she’s had an opportunity to do so and same goes for me. Shes a vintage clothes reseller (i have so many great made in USA old workwear from her) but we’re trying to buy land to dedicate ourselves back into that world 🙌

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                                      • olblueO
                                        olblue
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                                        IMG_2009.jpeg IMG_2004.jpeg IMG_2007.jpeg IMG_2003.jpeg month 5 baby!!! Let’s go 💙💙💙

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                                        • jebrandJ
                                          jebrand
                                          The Unwoven
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                                          Month five down. Had their first wash about a week ago.

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                                          WTB: IHSH-357

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                                          • denim-dawgD
                                            denim-dawg
                                            Iron Heart Deity
                                            @Gammaman
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                                            @Gammaman What a craftsmanship! Loving the life you've poured into these 805 ❤

                                            It is really moving to hear everyone's care and good words of wisdom life partner. Best wishes and vibes

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