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    • Filthy2123ozjunkieF
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      Thank you. I hope somehow love, tolerate, and kindness will prevail.

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      • tvenutoT
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        A while back my alma mater killed a football player via a combination of utterly pointless humiliation/bullying culture and gross negligence. It was announced today that the coach and athletic director are keeping their jobs. President is resigning at the end of the year. It’s clear he wanted coach out, but the (unnamed) board of regents wanted to keep them, as they are in love with the idea of “becoming a football school.” They had a losing record this past year fwiw.

        This is probably the only human behavior I’m puzzled by: the seemingly overwhelming desire by the people in charge to cover for subordinates that make completely indefensible transgressions. These bullies and predators only succeed because they operate under the shelter of impunity provided by their superiors or colleagues. Just look at that gymnastics trainer recently, or the Penn state Sandusky scandal a few years back.

        If I were the president of a university or ceo or head coach, and I found out that my employee had killed someone or was a diddler, I’d call the police, the press, and when they took the photo of him being arrested I’d be in the background yelling and pointing angrily. Why is it so difficult to condemn actions that are so obviously deserving of condemnation? Clearly a CEO can’t possibly be asked to never hire a bad person, but it’s totally their job to take appropriate action when transgressions come to light. Even looked at from a pragmatic standpoint, how the hell is this guy going to recruit? “I know we had a losing record last year, and had a death, but hey nowhere to go but up, right?!”

        If I had a UMD sticker on my car I’d be scraping it off. Still surprised by how many nittany lions stickers I see on cars, as opposed to hastily scraped off oval smears of adhesive.

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        • Stuart.TS
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          @tvenuto it's a culture of managed incompetence and accountability. If you don't protect your management line there's a chance you'll be exposed and therefore held personally to account.

          I can't go in to detail for legal reasons but it's happening at the local authority I work for. Fewer and fewer people can competently do the job they are employed to do, but they need to protect themselves by closing rank. It's shitty.

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          • Stuart.TS
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            • GilesG
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              I don't really care whether I'm a fuckwit or not, we are all going to have a ball at IHUK tonight.

              Suggest you don't follow this thread if it offends you….

              https://www.ironheart.co.uk/forum/index.php?topic=8789.msg583241#msg583241

              "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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              • Stuart.TS
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                @Giles ouch…I very much suspect the IH crew have more style and taste than to buy out the local pound stretcher of it's seasonal tat!. Enjoy your evening

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                • GilesG
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                  Was not meant to be an ouch and I am supremely not of the let's do this thing because everyone else is doing it, but  for our staff and friends (who meet up every two weeks or so through the summer) it seemed like a fitting, albeit silly. celebration to end to the summer….

                  "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                  • tvenutoT
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                    To update a previous item, the President of the University of MD did an about-face and fired the coach one day after he was reinstated by the board of regents. There’s a good article on while this is a step in the right direction, there are many self-made challenges for the school to overcome.

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                    • ChrisC
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                      The line in the article that stood out to me was this one:
                      "Given that this is college sports, we know [former head coach Durkin] will get a job. There is no longer a bottom here, even when you think it can’t get worse."

                      College football really has become a cesspit.

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                      • BloodnThunderB
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                        ^ College football is big business.  I guarantee if Jerry Sandusky was released from prison he'd have another job coaching football.

                        IG: Shadesofindig0

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                        • tvenutoT
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                          Agreed on college sports and football in particular.

                          This is all very poignant for me as the era of strong identity he refers to was exactly when I was there as an undergrad. We were getting noticed on the national level for basketball, and had a nascent football program. Academically many of our programs were nationally very well ranked, and there was much new construction all over campus. I think the temptation is often to take a growing success and try to expand wildly in every arena. An ill-conceived expansion has sunk many an empire, but companies often fail to remember this.

                          Abandoning your core values for the land grab will work in the short term but once you’ve erected the grand structure you look down and there’s no foundation underneath. If you’re not lucky often people have been hurt along the way as well. This is why the long term successes (people, programs, companies) are always aligned on their values. They have a culture not because they talk about it loudly but because they live it and won’t compromise it. This is why I patronize (and invest in) companies that are aligned from the top down.

                          It’s just sad to see my school go the way of so many other companies and programs, especially when there was such a buzz of promise while I was there.

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                          • Stuart.TS
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                            @Giles no no, not at all. Sorry the 'ouch' was the sound of my foot being firmly rammed into my mouth! I hope the team and family enjoyed the evening.

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                            • Stuart.TS
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                              I just bought a coffee in one of my 'when in London' coffee shops. The barrista handed me the contactless machine before I reached for my wallet. I said 'oh no, I'm cash thanks'. He response? 'Oh, cash, old school man' hahaha. The psychology of financial exchanges eh? Ha, we laughed. 😃

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                              • gaseousclayG
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                                My son got food poisoning Friday evening and I suspect it was a bad batch of raspberries I picked up. So, He’s been dealing with projectile vomiting and diarrhea for the last 2 days and had to stay home from school. He’s much better now but I’m a little pissed that I bought tainted food. Seems like a regular occurrence these days to read about salmonella outbreaks, I just never thought it would happen to my son. [emoji35]

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                                WTB:
                                IHSH-129 size L (blue)
                                IHSH-19

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                                  • gaseousclayG
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                                    @Jett129:

                                    Truth. Funny thing is, I’m now sick with whatever my son had [emoji23].  No vomiting and I haven’t shit myself….yet.

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                                    WTB:
                                    IHSH-129 size L (blue)
                                    IHSH-19

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                                    • UnTuckedU
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                                      It saddens me how some products seem to sell well, but are then just lost in the abyss…

                                      I WANT TO SEE WELL WORN PICS OF THE IHM-22 21oz denim N-1!!! Lol

                                      Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk

                                      In search of:
                                      IHV-04, med.
                                      IHSH-185, large
                                      IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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                                      • rocketR
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                                        😃 😃 😃

                                        rocketrocksrox 🤙🏼🤙🏾

                                        It's all humbug, like everywhere
                                        R.I.P. Geo

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                                        • Matty123M
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                                          @UnTucked:

                                          It saddens me how some products seem to sell well, but are then just lost in the abyss…

                                          I WANT TO SEE WELL WORN PICS OF THE IHM-22 21oz denim N-1!!! Lol

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                                          There’s like 6k people on this forum and about a hundred of us who
                                          Talk regularly. Those other 5900 are a cagey private bunch.  😃

                                          Maybe so. Maybe not

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                                          • UnTuckedU
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                                            @Matty123:

                                            @UnTucked:

                                            It saddens me how some products seem to sell well, but are then just lost in the abyss…

                                            I WANT TO SEE WELL WORN PICS OF THE IHM-22 21oz denim N-1!!! Lol

                                            Sent from my SM-N950U using Tapatalk

                                            There’s like 6k people on this forum and about a hundred of us who
                                            Talk regularly. Those other 5900 are a cagey private bunch.  😃

                                            You've just furthered my sadness! Lol

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                                            In search of:
                                            IHV-04, med.
                                            IHSH-185, large
                                            IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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