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    • ChrisC
      Chris
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      If that were the case, I'd hardly need to lend a full hand, would I?

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      • Megatron1505M
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        Jealous? Don't be, Texbitch doesn't have the brews of Belgbitch.

        Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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        • SeulS
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          I'm kinda glad you said "brews" and not "skills"…

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          • harley daveH
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            i allso was a smoker mayber 6-8 roll ups a day one day we went for a job interview (myself and mrs a) i told them i didnt smoke and after the interview was outside having a rollup ,
            long story short(ish) we got the job in italy and on the way down there i had my last cigarette and said toi myself I WILL NEVER SMOKE AGAIN ,16 years later still not smoking ,its all mental you just have to say to yourself I WILL NOT SMOKE ,maybe have a packet of cigarettes in a draw /cupboard and say i could have one of those if i wanted to ,but i dont .
            like most things in life your mind controls your body .

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            • simoncS
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              I wish I could find the pic of the Philip Morris execs on their Party Boat all paid for by you Gav, but you get the picture, keep sponsoring their lavish lifestyle.

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              • J
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                As a guy who in the past few weeks has quit  few vices cold turkey, @harley dave has given stellar advice. I didn't shelter myself from them, just found other things to occupy my mind and body as cravings hit.

                Bourbon: because living in Kentucky just makes you want to drink

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                • georgeelG
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                  I was an heavy smoker (40-50 a day, Marlboro soft pack). Then, about ten years ago, I quit. No particular reason. No cancer, no cough, no nothing. I had just broken my balls of all that dirt and bad smells.
                  The day before 50, the day after 0.
                  I agree 100 percent with Harley Dave: the great difficulty in quitting is an invention, a kind of superstition. No withdrawal symptoms, no panic, never lost a night's sleep. After 2 days I no longer thought about cigarettes. To quit is EASY. if I had known, I would have done much earlier.

                  After 10 years, I sometimes dream about smoking. "What an idiot", I think in may dream, wearing the burning smell. Then I wake up, and smile.

                  IH-888S-142OD

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                  • J
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                    ^couldn't agree more! I believe it's actually anxiety caused by fear of withdrawal symptoms that do most in. The mind is a tricky thing which few seem to have complete control over (myself included). This goes way beyond vices too, as any fear, fetish, or disposition can become just as crippling when thoughts are out of check.

                    Bourbon: because living in Kentucky just makes you want to drink

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                    • Megatron1505M
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                      Great advice HD JDL and George, I think strength of mind is important.

                      Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                      • ArloA
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                        I once quit smoking for about a year, after that a week, now smoking like a chimney again. It seems to be linked to my alcohol intake somehow…

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                        • harley daveH
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                          well just remember what george best once said .  he said i once gave up drinking and women it was the worst fifteen minutes of my life ….....................................

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                          • SeulS
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                            @ArloVShop:

                            It seems to be linked to my alcohol intake somehow…

                            Used to be this way as well. Glad I got rid of cigarettes -absolutely the most useless and gross habit one can have. That and being from Mansfield.

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                            • Megatron1505M
                              Megatron1505
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                              Smoking ends on August 9th. That is all.

                              Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                              • costanzaC
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                                …which is both admirable (I'm still a chimney) and ominous - that's the 45th anniversary of the Manson Family murders...

                                Be reasonable, demand the impossible.

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                                • Megatron1505M
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                                  Ha ha, can't say it entered my thinking but I'll take it. I go on holiday on that day so I just figured it best to stop on a week where I'll have other stuff to occupy my mind  🙂

                                  Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                                  • costanzaC
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                                    Good luck!

                                    Be reasonable, demand the impossible.

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                                    • D
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                                      @Megatron1505:

                                      Smoking ends on August 9th. That is all.

                                      Thats great Gav

                                      I quited smoking after 17years heavy smoking on 31 dec 2008 one day to the other half a year after i quited drinking alcohol from one day to the other. Since then nada mas.

                                      I have not a problem when people drink or smoke in front of me though 🙂

                                      Cheers,
                                      David

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                                      • J
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                                        You got this Gav! Good idea finding other things to occupy yourself. Take up a light workout regimen that you can do anywhere for when cravings hit, the extra blood flow really helps curb cravings.

                                        Bourbon: because living in Kentucky just makes you want to drink

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                                        • Megatron1505M
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                                          Thanks guys, it's a weird thing but I go all day at work every day without even thinking about smoking. This tells me that my smoking is a psychological dependence, which is easier to deal with for me.

                                          Made in England, clothed in Japan, fed in America and drunk in Belgium !

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                                          • SeulS
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                                            As opposed to what, something that forces you to go back to those Mansfield corners giving 1£ handjobs?..

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