• Home
    • Recent
    • Calendar
    • Register
    • Login
    Iron Heart Forum
    Iron Heart Forum

    Iron Heart Fall/Winter 2025 Live Reveal - Thursday 12th of June at 1700BST

    Learning moments in my denim journey

    The Resource Centre
    28
    126
    9.7k
    Loading More Posts
    • Oldest to Newest
    • Newest to Oldest
    • Most Votes
    Reply
    • Reply as topic
    Log in to reply
    This topic has been deleted. Only users with topic management privileges can see it.
    • goosehdG
      goosehd
      Mod Squad
      @Brandrea
      Joined:

      @Brandrea Early 90’s in Gananoque and eerily similar story and conditions.

      "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

      last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
      • BrandreaB
        Brandrea
        Raw and Unwashed
        Joined:

        As far as my denim in journey goes.

        I’m very new to the world of selvedge denim and the like. I’d say for me, my mistake (if you can call it that) was to buy too much all at once instead of going a bit more slowly and enjoying each piece for what it is.

        I have a bunch, and I mean a bunch of stuff I’ve barely even worn (some still have the tags on). I’m not sure why this is….

        I think I need to learn how to find that happy medium between want and need. Inevitably, my right brain tells me I “need” everything lol.

        last edited by Brandrea 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 9
        • OaktaviaO
          Oaktavia
          見習いボス
          @pechelman
          Joined:

          @pechelman I have a fresh, unworn pair of the same denim ready to fade for high contrast fades this fall. Had I not purchased a new pair, no way would I have done this lol.

          @68degreesorless much of the color loss was from relentless and deliberate washing and drying. They looked different every time I pulled them out like a shriveled old banana peel.

          IG: electricindigowizard

          "Possibly splitting hairs, but I consider @Oaktavia to be the beardy, dank High Magus of this denim game…" @neph93

          WTB: IHJ-72- XL/XXL

          last edited by Oaktavia 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
          • RobeOfTheMagiR
            RobeOfTheMagi
            Haraki san Expert
            Joined:

            @Brandrea I set myself a denim budget for the whole year, that allows me to purchase only a well-considered selection of items - which can be quite tough since ... IH ... . But I do actually enjoy the part of the hobby that I can only wear a smaller selection of items. Last year I have heavily committed to wearing my 526L-od. It's nice that one can have as much enjoyment out of this hobby on a smaller budget as someone who has greater financial freedom :).

            last edited by RobeOfTheMagi T4920T BrandreaB 2 Replies Last reply Reply Quote 2
            • T4920T
              T4920
              見習いボス
              @RobeOfTheMagi
              Joined:

              @RobeOfTheMagi I definitely spent a little more than I could really afford to in my first couple of years frequenting this forum (two year anniversary tomorrow, woo) but now I've established a solid wardrobe, I can take things a little easier, and be more conscientious about the exact pieces I purchase.

              I find it most difficult to resist bargains on the secondary market ...

              Happy to allow myself one or two full price items a year though!

              “𝑁𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑢𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑏 𝑦𝑜𝑢. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑚𝑒𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑡, 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜, 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑤𝑒𝑎𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑐ℎ 𝑡𝑜𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑟𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑔𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑡.”

              last edited by T4920 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
              • ARNCA
                ARNC
                啓蒙家
                Joined:

                @RobeOfTheMagi @Brandrea @T4920 I’m not saying I haven’t over purchased (I most certainly have) but I’ve learned that my initial reaction to a product announcement may change. There are definitely items that I can relegate to “really cool but not for me” and other stealth releases that lurk in the background until they suddenly become “must haves”. I don’t have a budget as such, but I try to ask myself questions like: does this fill a gap in my wardrobe? Do I know how I’ll wear this? What would this be competing with for wear time that I already have? This may mean I pass on some things, but others camp out in my head and haunt my dreams until I buy them 😃

                “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

                last edited by BrandreaB T4920T 2 Replies Last reply Reply Quote 4
                • Sir_Cuffs-a-LotS
                  Sir_Cuffs-a-Lot
                  The Unwoven
                  Joined:

                  Learning to trust measurements over tag sizes was something that shouldn’t have taken me as long as it did. Slow learner, eventually beaten into submission….

                  last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 4
                  • goosehdG
                    goosehd
                    Mod Squad
                    Joined:

                    Tag sizes are only meant to be a guide and absolutely mean nothing when comparing different brands to each other...glad you see the light! 🙂

                    "I don't give a shit what anyone else is doing, we will do what is best for us and our customers" - Giles P. :)

                    last edited by goosehd 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                    • Sir_Cuffs-a-LotS
                      Sir_Cuffs-a-Lot
                      The Unwoven
                      Joined:

                      Even after I knew this, I would sometimes find I was trying to convince myself I could make something work. Strange.

                      last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
                      • BrandreaB
                        Brandrea
                        Raw and Unwashed
                        @ARNC
                        Joined:

                        @ARNC I’d very much like to adopt this line of thinking going forward.

                        I have to admit, that when I first discovered this forum, I had a feeling of missing out on certain items when they are launched. I mean, I like the majority of new releases so it’s difficult to narrow it down. Especially when you’re new to this whole thing. Combine that with not having bought new cloths in literally a couple, of decades and it’s a recipe for over consumption lol.

                        What tends to happen is that I hover over my size and see the stock dwindling before me very eyes and I say fu*% it, and I’d hit the buy button.😲

                        I need to adopt a more thoughtful approach because I just end up with 3 of a certain item in different colors, (not that there’s anything wrong with that I guess).

                        last edited by ARNCA GilesG 2 Replies Last reply Reply Quote 4
                        • BrandreaB
                          Brandrea
                          Raw and Unwashed
                          @RobeOfTheMagi
                          Joined:

                          @RobeOfTheMagi

                          I need to do this as well. Set a budget and learn to separate wants and needs.

                          I did a better job of that this year, but still need to exercise more self control. IH just has so many nice things …

                          EDIT: and of course there’s the “What are you wearing” thread which is the ultimate enabler.

                          last edited by Brandrea 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 4
                          • T4920T
                            T4920
                            見習いボス
                            @ARNC
                            Joined:

                            @ARNC said in Learning moments in my denim journey:

                            but others camp out in my head and haunt my dreams until I buy them

                            Ahhh I hate this feeling, I'll sometimes become so fixated on something it'll manifest in my dreams... (Leather T3 most recently...)

                            “𝑁𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑢𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑏 𝑦𝑜𝑢. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑚𝑒𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑡, 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜, 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑤𝑒𝑎𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑐ℎ 𝑡𝑜𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑟𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑔𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑡.”

                            last edited by ARNCA 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
                            • ARNCA
                              ARNC
                              啓蒙家
                              @Brandrea
                              Joined:

                              @Brandrea I can definitely relate (and I sometimes follow the n + 1 argument that’s often advanced here). Sometimes it’s a huge relief when the dimensions don’t work for me. I don’t mind having a good selection of items I will wear and enjoy, but I don’t want loads of stuff I never wear. I’m building a wardrobe not an IH museum 😃

                              “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

                              last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
                              • ARNCA
                                ARNC
                                啓蒙家
                                @T4920
                                Joined:

                                @T4920 that worked out splendidly so keep dreaming!

                                “Every day that you survive you get a free sunset“

                                last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
                                • RobeOfTheMagiR
                                  RobeOfTheMagi
                                  Haraki san Expert
                                  Joined:

                                  I think it's difficult not to get into denim and boots at the same time. Is that a mistake one could make? Maybe I need to convince myself that there should be a separated boot budget next to my clothing budget xD.

                                  Important rule: Always find a loophole in your own logic.

                                  last edited by T4920T 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 2
                                  • T4920T
                                    T4920
                                    見習いボス
                                    @RobeOfTheMagi
                                    Joined:

                                    @RobeOfTheMagi boots have been calling me too... but for now, my Red Wings from eBay are a sound compromise 😆

                                    “𝑁𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑓𝑢𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑒 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑢𝑟𝑏 𝑦𝑜𝑢. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑚𝑒𝑒𝑡 𝑖𝑡, 𝑖𝑓 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑡𝑜, 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑠𝑎𝑚𝑒 𝑤𝑒𝑎𝑝𝑜𝑛𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑤ℎ𝑖𝑐ℎ 𝑡𝑜𝑑𝑎𝑦 𝑎𝑟𝑚 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑎𝑔𝑎𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑒𝑛𝑡.”

                                    last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                    • TobiT
                                      Tobi
                                      Haraki san Prodigy
                                      Joined:

                                      My main learning moment (other than not to soak your Pale Rider) is that I realize more and more that the addiction to buying new IH clothing too fast leads to a shitload of shirts and trousers that almost do not fade at all, since they get worn so little. The trick (too late for me) is to start young, slow the shopping and wear each item exclusively for some months.
                                      On the other side: if you start too young you will soon realize that the tag 32 jeans of your 20's will not work for middle age (spread) 🙂

                                      last edited by seawolfS mclaincauseyM 2 Replies Last reply Reply Quote 5
                                      • seawolfS
                                        seawolf
                                        Mod Squad
                                        @mclaincausey
                                        Joined:

                                        @mclaincausey That's a great idea. Honestly though, the phones keep getting incrementally bigger, and to be fair so do I 😂, but there's just not a ton of room in my front pockets. Also, the phone going in and out of the pocket all the time puts unnecessary wear on the pocket seam/edge, and not doing so saves me from having to make repairs to the top of the pocket bag that inevitably develops a hole. My hanky lives in the back pocket opposite my wallet.

                                        “Good design is actually a lot harder to notice than poor design, in part because good designs fit our needs so well that the design is invisible” - Don Norman

                                        @zeebeeleather

                                        last edited by mclaincauseyM 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                        • seawolfS
                                          seawolf
                                          Mod Squad
                                          @Tobi
                                          Joined:

                                          @Tobi said in Learning moments in my denim journey:

                                          The trick (too late for me) is to start young, slow the shopping and wear each item exclusively for some months.

                                          This is the real deal right here.

                                          “Good design is actually a lot harder to notice than poor design, in part because good designs fit our needs so well that the design is invisible” - Don Norman

                                          @zeebeeleather

                                          last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 0
                                          • mclaincauseyM
                                            mclaincausey
                                            見習いボス
                                            @seawolf
                                            Joined:

                                            @seawolf said in Learning moments in my denim journey:

                                            @mclaincausey . My hanky lives in the back pocket opposite my wallet.

                                            Same. And my phone lives there in short stints from time to time.

                                            Think it, be it.

                                            last edited by 1 Reply Last reply Reply Quote 1
                                            • First post
                                              Last post
                                            Copyright Iron Heart 2022.