Villains (Buying/ Selling/Trading)
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Joubin: next time when you see something you want, just take a deep breath first… Then check your credit on your Paypal account (think it's maxed, is what happened), and send one (1) PM to the seller... And be ready to pay immediately...
It's very frustrating as a seller to sit around waiting to hear from someone who claims s/he wants to buy something only for him to not come through after having been strung around for a day or two... Not saying that was the case here, but it happens so often that sometimes a seller might act presumptious out of frustration... Just my input... It's not just the seller who has to has his act together...
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Ok, I'm stepping in now that we have established a history of this behavior
Joubin, this forum is built on respect and courtesy, to which is a two way street
You're holding up people's sales. When you say you're going to buy something, you're actually held at your word. And on an internet forum, your word is all you have.
Clearly you're not getting this.
I'm going to clarify two of your statements you've posted
One, if you tell someone that you're going to buy their item, it's expected you pay up immediately. This is pretty common sense.
Two, a seller is allowed to get upset with you if you've been jerking them around for days. To think that you deserve to be treated well after the level of disrespect you've displayed to your fellow forum members is insane at best
Your reputation as a "Villian" is well deserved.
Sellers: beware
Since I've been given carte blanche on this issue, I request two things:
One, if anyone observes this behaviour again, please contact me
Two, Joubin, if you disagree with anything I've said here, feel free to hit the "Logout" button and not come back here again
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Thank you for the support
I'd like to put the issue to bed, Joubin has agreed not to come back here
But, just to clarify two things:
There are base rules that are the backbone of every forum. We try not to micromanage this forum too much, only that you observe respect and courtesy. How that is interpreted is established by the moderator/admin staff. I have made two points of that clear in my previous post in this thread.
Two, every time there is an issue, it is discussed fairly thoroughly in the background. I don't step out from behind the curtain very often in a moderator role, since this forum has had a history of civility. My previous post in no way was an act of despotism, the moderator staff is thoroughly disappointed by his behavior, not just me
Thanks again, Injunjack. Being a mod sucks sometimes
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I'd like to apologize for my behaviour. I realize it wasn't exactly a great thing to do, and I am genuinely sorry. But i do think that it was exaggerated a bit. Anyways, Dougng, I'm sorry if you weren't too impressed with me. And to the people that I left hanging, I'm sorry to as well. Whether any of you care about this post, i don't know. But I thought I'd apologize anyways. I didn't have any malicious intent, nor did i set out to affect anybody negatively with my actions. Anyways, whether you guys accept or decline my apology, it's been said. And I don't plan on doing what I did again. So hopefully the few of you who have a jaded opinion of me from the past few days, will find it in you to realize that I just got over excited with all of the gorgeous clothing, and acted before thinking. For this, I'm sorry. Have a good day, all.
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i find it just sad is all
it's likely that joubin isn't a bad guy
but jaco has nailed this:
the forum - THIS forum is a very special place; it really is a place for the family and friends to congregate and have fun, some chat, be educated and on occasion make a complete twat of yourself (well me :-X)
please let's keep it this way . . . and that really should include consigning this little bit of upset to the history department and losing the anger
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Joubin i hope all is well on the home front, but real talk, you have got to get your sh!t together. if a behavior isn't accepted by the pack you can change the pack or adhere to the rules set-out. in any event, i hope whatever you are going through resolves itself so you can get back to everyday "normal" life.
sending a pm as i don't think it's polite to chastise or beright in public & to be honest through out this, even though i don't agree with you, you've been cordial enough. . . but i'm a ny'er so i guess that's not saying much for either of us
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I have split this thread as a majority of the pages were dedicated to one person/ case alone. That now has it's own place in the Members Area. Thank you for all the help!
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new bad guy coming soon
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Ok madmonday, spill the beans…...Ok, maybe to give the benefit the doubt, wait one more day
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It is with heavy heart that I am here to report on Barun & his account with the credit union of madmonday. Barun's account is now in arrears for the below items:
Just picked up a little slice of ox blood heaven from my main man Monday!
although I am his "main man", barun has chosen to neglect the generous payment schedule that was extended to him. In order to give him a chance to make things right I have sent paypal requests for funds as well as emails & pms to see what is the situation. To date no responses has been offered from barun.
beware of this man:
@barun:
brixton
27bk
634bk
rw iras his word is either no good . . . or he is on an island with no connection to the worldwide web & can not say what happened to make him disappear with out completing his payment program
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yeah i thought he was a stand up dude as well. i hope it is a misunderstanding on my end. . . but he has been absent for a few & not answering any correspondence. don't know what else to call it besides a robbery.
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Sorry to hear that Monday. I will keep my eyes peeled for him…
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That sucks….hope this gets resolved in a good way.
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Hope things will work out for you madmonday.
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And for all of you that have never dealt with the Monday…
He is incredibly generous and super willing to extend trust and work with you to get something done.Offering a "payment schedule"...c'mon, that's pretty cool of him. And to betray that trust, well, I might just turn into "MadKat" for solidarity until this is sorted out...
