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    • Matty123M
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      Take some time and really think on it. Be honest with yourself as to what is best for the child. Like neph said,  take ego out of the equation and think what’s best for him. Not what you think is right, but what is best for him. There is a subtle yet important difference between those. Good luck.

      Maybe so. Maybe not

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      • ChrisC
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        Just to confirm, your son does not, to your knowledge, have learning disabilities, correct?  That changes the analysis considerably.

        Otherwise, I think I'd lean toward the immersion program.  That depends very much on your son, though.  Immersion programs have a small window- if the child isn't in one by about 1st grade, then they probably aren't going to be able to do it ever- they just fall too far behind linguistically.  So your choice needs to be soon.  It will be more challenging, and I think the long term benefits are worthwhile.

        However, this is the part that depends on your son.  Is he likely to adjust well to a new school and making new friends?  Is he even marginally interested in learning Spanish? Does he do well when challenged?  If the answer to any of those questions is no, then the odds are that this won't work.

        I would point out that the worst case scenario probably isn't very bad.  He's young, so the odds that you'll do any serious academic damage is really low.  If you try the immersion program and it doesn't work, you can put him in the other school with no issues.

        And then you can forever after point out to your ex-wife that she made the wrong decision…  (which would be completely dickish)

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        • gaseousclayG
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          To my knowledge he does not have any learning disabilities. My ex-wife's cousins, both of whom are in their early 20's, were in a French immersion school since the age of 5. I don't know if this is what prompted my ex to choose Spanish immersion or not.

          Our son does incredibly well in new environments. When he transitioned to different classes at his daycare he quickly warmed up to it and made friends right away. His current teacher says that he's the most popular in his class because he's very social and loves to play with his classmates. I honestly believe that part of his personality was inherited from his mother as she's very outgoing, whereas, I tend to keep to myself in social settings and am usually the quiet guy.

          I guess you're right though, if Spanish immersion school doesn't pan out he can go to the other one.

          Thanks for the input fellers  😎

          WTB:
          IHSH-129 size L (blue)
          IHSH-19

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          • DionD
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            How does one include a hyperlink in a post? It's way more tidy to hide a URL behind a word or two instead of posting the whole web address. I've seen people doing it here but I couldn't figure it out by myself how.

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            • SeulS
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              Linking to a named site
              [url]This be bbcode.org![/url]
              

              So check here ey!

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              • DionD
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                Thank you, Seul!

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                • piranhaP
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                  Is there a search function for these forums?

                  Instagram: djdonniepiranhie

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                  • AdamJA
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                    Yes, here

                    The devil is in the detail..

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                    • piranhaP
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                      Thank you.  I completely missed it.

                      @Adam:

                      Yes, here

                      Instagram: djdonniepiranhie

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                      • GilesG
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                        Anyone know of a high-end boot maker (other than Wesco, Viberg, Clinch) that would make an Engineer Boot with a western toe?

                        "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                        • UnTuckedU
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                          @Giles:

                          Anyone know of a high-end boot maker (other than Wesco, Viberg, Clinch) that would make an Engineer Boot with a western toe?

                          Brian the Bootmaker can make basically anything you want

                          In search of:
                          IHV-04, med.
                          IHSH-185, large
                          IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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                          • UnTuckedU
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                            Now that I think about it, I guess you mean "ready made"…

                            In search of:
                            IHV-04, med.
                            IHSH-185, large
                            IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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                            • GilesG
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                              Nope

                              "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                              • AppfaffA
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                                Brian the Bootmaker can make basically anything you want

                                Not always the case… I asked him for a pair of boots he had made before, with a very “seemingly simply” upgrade and he said he was not able to do it...

                                I know he had made western boots however - I believe he made a pair of Snakeskin for a client. I seem to remember them being snip toe though, not sure if you want a Cuban toe, or snip.

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                                • UnTuckedU
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                                  @Giles:

                                  Nope

                                  Yeah, I would totally recommend contacting him if you're contemplating custom…

                                  Too bad you didn't ask this while in LA, you could have gone to his shop

                                  In search of:
                                  IHV-04, med.
                                  IHSH-185, large
                                  IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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                                  • GilesG
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                                    Not for me….....

                                    "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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                                    • UnTuckedU
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                                      Oh, ok

                                      In search of:
                                      IHV-04, med.
                                      IHSH-185, large
                                      IHSH-186, large (khaki, and green)

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                                      • piranhaP
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                                        Brian the Bootmaker makes the best shoes/boots that you'll find anywhere. 
                                        brian@roleclub.com

                                        Instagram: djdonniepiranhie

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                                        • dylantbmayesD
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                                          Looking for a paracord supplier, @Alex @Giles or anyone else with a recommendation.

                                          Thanks!

                                          INSTAGRAM: @DYLANTBMAYES | FACEBOOK.COM/DYLANTBMAYES

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                                          • GilesG
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                                            We buy ours from here:

                                            https://www.paracord.eu/

                                            "OK face up to it - you're useless but generally pretty honest and straightforward . . . it's a rare combination of qualities that I have come to admire in you" - Geo 2011

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